New to #nsfwtwt + mdni
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Any pronouns
22 years young
Bisexual + taken irl
Switch princes
Faceless acc
Obsessed with my car and buying cherry accessories
(not my photo, just love the aesthetic)
- $15 to dm (cashapp : wiltingflowerx)
some dommes care about mental health. don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
a good domme understands that mental health matters, boundaries matter, and the person behind the screen matters.
the best dynamics are built on trust, respect, and genuine care.
@luvmsdex Being new in findom is not easy but like… the posts are so obvious, I feel…. I don’t know, maybe I’m crazy but if any sub is posting about wanting dommes, it just sends red flags. I started this month though so I’d rather be safe than sorry yk-?
Some things I’ve noticed in the findom community.
One thing I’ve noticed about findom and sub accounts is that a lot of y’all will interact with subs posts you and hope you get money from them, but the moment they open up about struggling mentally, suddenly nobody has anything to say.
And when subs talk about something serious, some of y’all discredit them or disrespect them simply because they’re subs.
Some of y’all genuinely struggle to see subs as HUMAN BEINGS outside of their role. You need to learn when to turn off the “dominant, bitchy, I’m better than you” attitude and be reasonable, respectful.
Being a Domme doesn’t make you better than anyone else, and being a sub doesn’t make someone less deserving of respect. Some of Y’all need to do better.
Some conversations need to be had, and a lot of them are brought up by subs. But the moment a sub brings up a serious topic about the findom community, people are ready to argue or discredit them. Why is that?
(Just to be clear, I’m talking about serious conversations regarding the findom community as a whole, NOT personal dynamics between Dommes and subs.)
Some things I’ve noticed in the findom community.
One thing I’ve noticed about findom and sub accounts is that a lot of y’all will interact with subs posts you and hope you get money from them, but the moment they open up about struggling mentally, suddenly nobody has anything to say.
And when subs talk about something serious, some of y’all discredit them or disrespect them simply because they’re subs.
Some of y’all genuinely struggle to see subs as HUMAN BEINGS outside of their role. You need to learn when to turn off the ���dominant, bitchy, I’m better than you” attitude and be reasonable, respectful.
Being a Domme doesn’t make you better than anyone else, and being a sub doesn’t make someone less deserving of respect. Some of Y’all need to do better.
Some conversations need to be had, and a lot of them are brought up by subs. But the moment a sub brings up a serious topic about the findom community, people are ready to argue or discredit them. Why is that?
(Just to be clear, I’m talking about serious conversations regarding the findom community as a whole, NOT personal dynamics between Dommes and subs.)