If your girlfriend is still in the university, take a week break from work (if you can), then visit her school or hostel to spy on her.
Trail her movements discretely.
Do not let her know that you're around.
After one week, come and collect tissue from me.
End.
@eezharhh Just choose your kids. That's not your man, regardless of how you feel about him.
It is so unfortunate that people still get so selfish. Some women are single mothers too but wouldn't want to deal with single fathers.
So pathetic.