Being in a relationship means you must love someone the way they need you to, not just in the way that is comfortable for you. Because it's a reminder that love is not only about what I prefer giving, it's also about how the other person actually receives it. Real love takes effort, emotional maturity, and the willingness to meet each other halfway, not just show up when it feels easy.
I want to be rich. But not Lamborghini
or Rolex rich, I want to be rich enough to go to the gym at 3pm and nobody can tell me no. To tap the family in front of me at the supermarket and say, "It's on me," Rich enough that my future wife never has to worry about getting a job. Rich enough to show my children the world, not pictures of it. Rich enough to take my friends to dinner and say, "| got this", Rich enough that God uses me to help the people who are in need. That's my version of rich.
Karlous Miller doesn't just tell jokes. This man be dropping some jewels. A lot of men can relate to what he is saying. Dealing with heartbreak can damage a man's ego to the core. Some men never recover. And don't even realize they haven't recovered.
Accept the fact that you won't always feel those butterflies like you did before; you won't feel loved every single day. This has nothing to do with the other person. It's because love is more than a feeling, it's a decision. Sometimes you’ll want to say “fuck this.” Lol, relax. Finish what you started.