Being fearful in a good way is telling them what I had seen and went through before I left, even if they didn’t believe me, and dragging them along with me.
Edit2: not sure how to pin a comment, but put it well: “The better LPT is to plan your anniversary with the end in mind. Don’t get married on a holiday weekend. You might think it’s a good idea to have long weekends, but so does everyone else in the nation.