As much as I'm a cynical arsehole that loves to be angry about stuff... I just want to give the world a hug & have everyone (even those I strongly disagree with) be happy.
That's what makes me so passionate. I see injustice, I want to fix it. I see bullying, I want to oppose it.
@thisisbensilver That's not a citation.
I even THINK I know which allegation you're referring to, but you provide no description OR citation of either the incident OR the proof of its veracity.
So, Neil Gaiman is accused of something unprovable & the exact ppl you think of immediately believe the worst. Despite his entire career & work being a testament to wholesome, positive, progressive politics.
If that man isn't innocent until proven guilty, no man could be.
@Grimasaur@ukhomeoffice Something tells me the excuse will be that hatred of men doesn't lead to violence against men, or that it's less important bc reasons.
Meanwhile, men & boys continue to fall behind, or fall for propaganda exploiting these double standards.
It's troubling.
@kenfarmer Yup.
It SHOULD still be difficult to prove and the courts should err VERY MUCH on the side of caution... but if intention can be demonstrated it should very much be considered a sex crime.
@roly_allen @TheDoctorJenny @dreamosaurus Because he is 63 years old and this is the first instance of an allegation even being made? That would seem odd to me tbh.
He could very well be guilty, but conflating miscommunication/misadventure with actual crimes ALSO doesn't help. Even when "building a pattern of behaviour"
@sas_yvonne The problem being MANY women will complain (to an abusive degree) if things aren't done the way THEY want it.
Is it every woman? No.
But it IS a lot of women, and somehow never part of the conversation.
For instance, if a woman think towels can be "folded wrong" she's the problem
@TwoLetterMo We can CLEARLY see the evidence everywhere of women losing their absolute shit & typically the worst they face is ridicule.
How many men do we see killed by the police for being difficult?
Women have their crosses to bear. This aint one of them.
Women are ALLOWED to be emotional.
@TwoLetterMo It bothers ME so much bc it's the OPPOSITE of true.
A woman who is COMPLETELY out of control will get sympathy as well as condescention.
A woman can outright murder her own children & ppl will be concerned about why she did it.
A man can't even raise his voice w/o being a threat.
@ChicoIsNotDead @TwoLetterMo How does that make her more correct?
How many women are murdered bc they failed to control their emotions. I'm gonna need numbers and citations.
@DogMaximum20271@stillnotanumbr Which is fair enough. But the LEAP to immediately believe the worst possible conclusion is what concerns me.
Some ppl just seem to pick & choose what allegations should be believed w/o evidence, & which would be dismissed DESPITE evidence... & the pattern being obvious.
@TainSilfrulf @Ope_sneakpastya Honestly, I think it COULD work... but it would become a focus. Why is that character limited? What effect would it have on the part?
(minor spoiler) A char in Sanderson's Stormlight Archives is paralyzed & can't be healed. She's awesome. Her disability is not ignored.
@Bruwulf But I'm not one to condemn somebody just bc I disagree with them.
I've made similar arguments when Trump was accused over his locker room bragging. As if a tall, famous billionaire is WRONG in his assessment about getting women... >< (& I despise the man)
@ReviewsPossum And the solution to that scene was EASY.
Just accept that Jenn was in the wrong.
She was angry & traumatised & lashed out at the least deserving person.
@Bruwulf But that doesn't justify the witch hunts.
This is the basis of civil society. Some number of the guilty will escape justice bc the punishment of the innocent is a bigger crime.
@FollowingM42309 I might have missed Ellis, but I spoke out against the witch hunt against Vic.
Hell, I've spoken out against such actions taken against people I ACTIVELY despise & disagree with. Bc I'm not a hypocrite.
@Bruwulf The point I was making that EVEN those who bow to every demand of the woke mob will NEVER be good enough to escape immediate censure on accusation alone... if they're not the correct identity.
Though if you're the "right" identity it seems no amount of proof is enough :P