Sometimes, many things have to die, for new things to be reborn.
I have been fighting for my life and sanity offline.
Only to come online to realize that the one person that I've stood by against all adversaries has turned on me.
Such is life.
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Here I was genuinely believing that my posts didn't garner the right amount of engagements.
Throwing into the abyss of X any and everything to rekindle my reach.
Whereas, my core mutuals come across my content and ignore them.
Just to gloat.
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I still maintain my stance that even after I have given you my kidney, I am not buying your voice.
It doesn't make sense to many but my kindness doesn't come at the expense of your sanity.
If I move like an idiot, call me an idiot.
It's your right
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A good man is not a nice man๐ป๐ป
A good man is best understood through the mental model of a CONSTRAINED WEAPON, like a well-regulated fireplace.
The dominant mechanism driving this behavior is the selection pressure of utility; harmlessness is not virtue, but mere incapacity. True goodness requires the possession of dangerous force combined with absolute voluntary control over its deployment.
A harmless person lacks the capacity for malice but also the strength for meaningful protection.
โจTrue goodness functions like a heavy shield that can swing as an axe when required. Society mistakenly labels the weak as good because they present no immediate threat to others. However, a crisis reveals that controlled aggression is mandatory to defend boundaries and resist tyranny.
โกThe primary constraint is internal discipline holding back a reservoir of highly potent, disruptive power. Without this capacity for structured violence, virtue lacks the leverage to withstand external corruption. Therefore, we can predict that soft niceness will consistently crumble under severe systemic stress.
๐กThe ultimate insight is that genuine morality is a choice available only to the dangerous.
Girls,
When a man is funny. You laugh.
When you think he is cute. Smile at him.
When he calls you pretty. Say "Thanks"
When you you believe is ambitious. Imitate him.
When he smells nice. Complement him
What you don't do is get pregnant for him.
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Women are not smart at cheating neither are good with disposing evidence.
Claiming women are good at "disposing evidence" is basically women
- taking advantage of their men's trust
- deleting chats and call logs
- using visitations to their relatives as decoy to visit their lovers
- gaslighting their men when they are suspicious
Women aren't smart, I tell you. Men just pretend to be "blind."
Here is the thing, I am married.
I won't go snooping around my wife to find her cheating.
Hell, if I want to catch her cheating I will place hidden cameras, bug her clothes, shoes, phones and pay a private investigator.
That way, I will have unshakeable evidence that can't be contested and I can afford it but all for what?
So that I can
- ruin her reputation and embarrass her?
- send her out of our family and scar the children?
- denounce the children and make them her sole responsibility as punishment?
- traumatize her in ways her mind will never recover from?
As a man, or as men, we pretend that our women can never cheat, even when we are loud with our cheating, not because they can't cheat but just because in "pretending", we keep women safe from themselves.
How? I am glad you asked.
Women's natural proclivities is usually fueled by the urge to either prove their innocence or at least, be guilty of whatever they are being accused or suspected of doing.
Snooping around your woman to catch her cheating is an insecure act of weakness. Women hate weak men.
When you go in search of wanting to catch them cheating, especially when they might be innocent. They ensure you find them cheating because your inability to trust them, indicates that you are weak, to them.
Doesn't make sense but it makes sense to women.
It is why you will often hear them saying that if a man does a DNA test of the children she bore for him, they would divorce the man.
Their reason is purely because doing the DNA is accusing them or suspecting them of either being a cheat or calling them a whore.
They divorce you because if they decide to continue to live with you, they would never forget that you don't trust them and so they will cheat and actually commit paternity fraud out of spite, just to either be caught and discarded or make a fool of you, their man.
Women are chaotic in nature.
Therefore, catching a woman cheating not just damages the children and family, it ruins and runs for generations.
Tales of how the mother was thrown out for being a cheat will be passed down and men will avoid the daughters of a cheat.
If the daughters find a husband, they will either cheat to validate the theory or endure cheating plus other abuse, so they don't validate it.
Female infidelity isn't like male infidelity.
Women are not smart at disposing of evidence of cheating or are they smart at cheating.
Men are just merciful.
- side dude don't ousted the cheating wives to their husbands or have desires to become the main
- husbands/men live with women with the delusional belief that women can never cheat.
It is a mercy.
Never forget that ladies๐ซต๐พ
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It would be a pleasure if that person is me.
With what you've helped us achieve @Kurrentflow_ Enterprises, we are believing God that such kindness will come from us.
You deserve it for what you've done for a lot of folks on here.
Just because he could never commit to one woman again made him right on his judgment.
It is what men ALLOW that women will do.
He should focus more on his choice than using a failure in decision to justify his lack of commitment.
Well, if that's how he copes with his choices, I won't change his mind.
But being married a woman like his first wife is a risk he still shouldn't continue taking.
It's materialistic women who become widows fast. They'd rather be widows than divorcee.
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@Dee_Bebegirl I pray your brother(if you have any) or somebody in your family that you care for dearly marries a woman like ugoโs wife. Amen ๐๐ผ.
@__tega__@iamklausenberg I know your type. You read to give responses and not to digest the message. God punish your useless mother! And God punish your asswipe of a father! One condom wouldโve done the job, but see as your God forbid of a father insert preeq, bring one swegbe come earth. Chai!๐ช
@__tega__@iamklausenberg I know your type. You read to give responses and not to digest the message. God punish your useless mother! And God punish your asswipe of a father! One condom wouldโve done the job, but see as your God forbid of a father insert preeq, bring one swegbe come earth. Chai!๐ช
I got your rate card and it didn't scare me because we are somewhat similar even though life gave me a different assignment.
I always loved and desperately wanted to be an aeronautical engineer but here I am, on X, tweeting about family, marriage and relationships and interacting with the finest people of the world.
Which you are one of them.
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A woman is a difficult entity.
The most difficult species to ever tame.
It is better to train a goat or lion than a woman.
They are that difficult.
In Igbo, a woman is nwanyแป.
Nwa - baby
Nyi - hard/difficult
A woman is a difficult child.
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@AfricaFactsZone, Thank you for bringing this up. First, it's true I took back my ambulance & I have no apologies for that. Why did I do it? It's because they didn't vote for me. So did you expect me to walkaway with nothing? Galatians 6:7 A man reaps what he sows.
@eagleseyeinc Itโs also highly necessary to tell men to stay away from poor menโs daughters, they only saw their fathers as atm machines and nothing more. They will see their men as the same.