You are allowed to experience joy while things in your life are unresolved. If you postpone happiness until everything is perfect, you’ll be postponing it forever.
Being shy as a man is a waste of time and life. Every conversation you did not start, every room you stood quietly in, every girl you watched walk away, every opportunity that went to the guy who took action - that is the real cost of shyness and it compounds over years. Confidence is not a personality trait you are born withit bro. It is a muscle you build by repeatedly doing the uncomfortable thing until it stops being uncomfortable.