People with high standards are very skilled at detachment and cut people off at the slightest sign of disrespect. they don’t tolerate disrespect even as a joke.
A simp is some guy girls don't like or just put up with. This is why guys act nonchalant because they feel unsafe to be vulnerable without it being used against them. If a guy is like this with his girl and doesn't care what others think, only the girl can ruin this.
True story: In 2011, I worked in San Francisco for this phone book company right before they became obsolete. A delivery driver who was an Oakland native, grew his own weed, showed me around downtown SF as we smoked in public one night, claims he took Pinkys virginity. 🤣