Yeaaah... I thought this would be the case, add daydreaming about having achieved your goals on top of that and you've got a losing formula, lmao.
I gotta lock in, bruh...
نفسياً اذا قلت للناس عن اهدافك و طموحاتك دماغك يفرز شعور الرضا كأنك فعلياً أنجزت لأنك اخذت اعتراف اجتماعي مبكر وبعدها الحافز الداخلي يضعف لأن عقلك حس إنه وصل جزئيًا ، وهذا يعني انك وقفت عن تحقيق اهدافك ، لذلك التزم الصمت وعود نفسك عليه
Media ADHD: "Ooh, look a squirrel! Let's go ride bikes!"
Real ADHD: "I am currently ruining my own life by refusing to perform a 3-minute task that would solve 90% of my anxiety.
I am fully aware of this. I am screaming internally. I physically cannot make my body stand up and do it. And yes it as stupid to me as it is to you.