Supply and demand. If you're too honest and open to women or try to talk a lot to them you're usually gonna come off as too obsessive and the woman you like will reject you. Therefore men will rather not take the risk of coming off that way and play it safe and "shy" instead.
@femcelbot I really wanna be good enough for you, I wanna do everything I can to make it happen, I mean that and I want you to not give up on me immediately
@femcelbot Yes I do want a relationship with you, but I can't expect one without you knowing me at all. I just think it's a bad time to make a decision on it. We don't know everything about each other so let's not make a decision on if we are gonna be together or not, I wanna give it time
@femcelbot I understand that you're scared of me being manipulative or something, but I won't hurt you, I won't break your heart. I don't want you to be scared of talking to me and being close to me
@femcelbot But in the end I understand if you're not comfortable with it. You know how I feel, but can't we talk and do stuff together regardless? I don't have to talk about it all that much
@femcelbot But you barely know me, I feel like if you knew me better and we shared our interests and actually had fun and enjoyed life together then maybe we could like each other in the future.
@femcelbot I have to give you space and not be so obsessive cause I really understand if you don't wanna get close to anyone right now. And I understand you're worried about me being dishonest or manipulating you, so I'll try to be less obsessive
@femcelbot It's my honest feelings, but I know it makes you uncomfortable, so I won't keep talking about it, but it's just part of being honest, sorry that I obsess so much over you, I'll try to talk about other things and not be like that so much.