Grounding myself in remembering that love is revolutionary. bell hooks said that love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust. Cornel West said justice is what love looks like in public, and tenderness is what love looks like in private.
If your partner is struggling, having bad days, doing less, sleeping more, I can not stress this enough. PICK UP THEIR SLACK and do NOT throw it in their face or complain about it. Do it with extra love and a smile on your face because I promise you they need it.