@arihyyhrang The "old bts" made mistakes too, and I’m sure in the future they will make mistakes as well. That doesn’t erase everything they’ve stood for. You can be disappointed in their choices without acting like everything they’ve ever done suddenly means nothing.
It’s totally fair to criticize them so they can do better, but I have seen way too many tweets saying horrible things about Namseok now, specially Joon. It honestly feels like some of you were just waiting for them to screw up so you could dump all your shit on them.
There's no concept of nuance here. Many of you all are hypocrites , many of you all will defend anything, many of you all hold tannies on a different standard. So this also just turns into an echo chamber
The thing about this fandom is that eventhough sometimes it is important to criticize tannies for some of their actions , you all lose the plot really fast
it just takes minutes for it to turn into something really weird and a smear campaign where no one is normal
to clarify, this does not negate or undo all of the good stuff the boys have been doing since the beginning
They are still good people at their core but good people make mistakes and they should be allowed to make mistakes but they should also learn from them
so anybody genuinely hating on them is gonna get a quick block from me
Disappointment and inciting hate doesn’t sit on the same table, you cannot say you love someone and w!sh h@rm on them in the same sentence, there's a difference between holding accountable and giving space to wolves to eat them al!ve.
and hope you realize which one is you!
And plz don’t start acting like the tannies are somehow on the same level as the abuser because they’re going to his concert. He literally committed a f** crime. We can be disappointed in the members’ choices without equating them with the person who actually did it.
Son adultos y tienen la capacidad de hacer lo que quieran y yo soy adulta y tengo la capacidad de decir "En mi opinión le erraron en esta" pero no por eso los voy a empezar a insultar y a degradar de la forma en la que están haciendo, un límite la puta madre
do i like any of those men, no, do agree with it, no, am i disappointed on them, actually no , because i feel their actions through out the years speak more for themselves and just one night at a concert isn’t going to erase that for me. that’s my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
Can we please stop putting sad background music over clips of Tae trying to listen or the members whispering in his ear?
He shared something really personal with us because he sees us as family and wanted to be honest.
Turning clips of him struggling to hear or the members helping him into dramatic posts feels so uncomfortable.
Imagine he is coming online and seeing dramatic edits with sad background music or tragic captions isn't going to make him feel good.
We are all worried about him and want him to recover soon, but these edits won't help.
He needs our love and quiet support, not videos treating him like a tragedy.
Really want to show love, Just send him a nice message, wish him a good recovery, and keep the environment warm for him.
(This is my personal opinion and has nothing to do with the team)
– Admin A
I'm not a fan of AI but you won't see me being performative when there is so many instances even in workspaces where it demands for me to use it. If you actually ever tried to listening to 875 words and not the narrative that YOU derived from it then you wouldn't be acting like this
it's really not that difficult to unstan if you feel like your values are not aligned with others. trying to punish or police people for things you don't agree on will not make you a better person. "i want to hold them accountable" and who are you to decide on that???