I had to stop overthinking everything and just be at peace with what is. Life not always gone make sense. People not always gone be solid like you. And sometimes things don’t play out how you thought they would… and that’s okay. Not every bond is meant to be repaired. Some things end, some people switch up, and some chapters just close. Every situation don’t need closure… Sometimes you just gotta accept that it is what it is and move on 💯
Unfortunately my last relationship completely changed me. So yes, I DO care about the people in your phone. Yes, I DO care about what you're doing when I’m not around. Yes, I DO care when you seem even slightly off. Yes, I DO care about things I wished I didn’t. And it’s not because I’m insecure, controlling, or trying to make your life difficult. It’s because I learned the hard way what it feels like to trust someone fully… and then be broken by them.
The older I get the more I realize that I’ll never have a perfect relationship. I just wanna be with somebody that chooses me everyday. Somebody committed to navigating and figuring it out with me. Loving me the same through up and downs, different peaks and every season 💯
Y'all wanna be toxic soooo bad. Meanwhile, I'm tryna kill every toxic trait within me. I don't wanna argue, be disrespectful, act cold, or question love.
I wanna be gentle, accountable, emotionally intelligent, supportive, and soft with my person.
Real love deserves real peace.