Heather (xMistressGamer)

A red haired gamer following celebs & news. Studying Psychology at University 👩‍🎓
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[Heather (xMistressGamer) @HeatherJane1111]

#PS5Share, #DisneyDreamlightValley

[itsD3lay🐧 @itsD3lay]

Momentos en los que te das cuenta que 1 minuto dura mucho tiempo

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Narcissists expect you to move on as though nothing happened. They dismiss your pain, downplay the harm they caused, and call it a misunderstanding. They want peace without accountability, forgiveness without change, and access without earning it

[Troll Football @TrollFootball]

2nd semi final

[DiscussingFilm @DiscussingFilm]

Sam Neill has sadly passed away at the age of 78.

[Heather (xMistressGamer) @HeatherJane1111]

@Squeeze1i This! I've been suffering for years with severe neurological symptoms whenever I sleep. Every gp have dismissed me for a sleep study & even wrongly written results on my medical records fabricating things with no proof. I've had no choice but to privately pay to see a neurologist

[The woman @Tarmeim]

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that person, it's not up to you to tell them when and how to heal. If you are truly sorry and care about them, you gotta deal with those uncomfortable feelings about how they're still hurting over something. These are the consequences of your actions.

[Video Game History @VideoGameHstry]

Who was the first gaming youtuber you watched?

[Heather (xMistressGamer) @HeatherJane1111]

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[Loonirium 🩹🦊 | Vtuber @Loonirium]

TL;DR: BPD does not make someone abusive, dangerous, manipulative, or incapable of accountability. BPD is a treatable mental health disorder often linked to trauma, abuse, neglect, genetics, and attachment issues. Judge people by their actions, not by a diagnosis.

As someone diagnosed with BPD, I find posts like this deeply frustrating because they're exactly the kind of stigma that prevents people from seeking help.

Borderline Personality Disorder is not a diagnosis of being abusive, manipulative, dangerous, or incapable of accountability. It's a complex mental health condition involving emotional dysregulation, unstable self-image, intense fear of abandonment, impulsivity, and difficulty managing overwhelming emotions.

Many of the symptoms people with BPD struggle with are directed inward, not outward: chronic feelings of emptiness, intense shame, self-hatred, guilt, suicidal thoughts, self-harm, and a constant fear of losing the people we care about.

What bothers me most is seeing someone's personal experiences with a family member or acquaintance treated as evidence for millions of people. If someone knew two people with depression who were abusive, we wouldn't conclude that all people with depression are dangerous. The same standard should apply here.

BPD is not something people choose. Research suggests it develops through a combination of genetic vulnerability and environmental factors, including trauma, neglect, chronic invalidation, attachment disruption, and abuse. In my own case, I experienced severe abuse and neglect growing up, and my mother also had BPD. Many people with BPD have similar histories. The disorder is often rooted in years of pain, not a desire to hurt others.

It's also important to stop confusing BPD with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. While both can involve relationship difficulties, they are not the same condition. People with BPD are often terrified of abandonment and struggle with emotional regulation. People with NPD often struggle with self-esteem regulation, grandiosity, and a need for admiration. Neither diagnosis automatically makes someone abusive.

The claim that people with BPD "never take accountability" is especially ironic because many of us spend our lives drowning in guilt, blaming ourselves for everything, and believing we're fundamentally broken.

And contrary to what was claimed, treatment is not hopeless. BPD is actually one of the most treatable personality disorders. Therapies like DBT have helped countless people build healthy relationships, regulate emotions, and create stable lives.

If you want to criticize someone's actions, criticize their actions. But telling people to "stay away from people with BPD" isn't mental health awareness. It's discrimination.

People with BPD are human beings. We are your friends, your family members, your coworkers, your partners, and your communities. We deserve to be judged by our individual actions, not reduced to the worst stereotypes associated with a diagnosis.

[Heather (xMistressGamer) @HeatherJane1111]

@minawawawaw @AI_EmeraldApple People need to stop stereotyping every person with BPD to be the same, based on their experiences with a person who has treated them badly & then blame it on BPD alone. We are not all the same. Thank you

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

One thing about me is I be knowing. I know u insecure asf. I know u projecting. I know u hate urself so u try to dim me. I see right through it. Nothing offends me

[Annieberry @richieann]

It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.

[Softboy @softboywin]

why the fuck don’t toasters have a window so you can see how toasted your bread is

[✦𝖈𝖆𝖇𝖆𝖘𝖆✦ @Fw_cabasa]

Rubbing a woman to sleep knowing she feels safe in your arms is some grown man shit.

[Leo @leo_osn5]

Cuando digo "si mal no recuerdo" o "si no me equivoco", solo estoy siendo amable a la hora de tener razón. Ni recuerdo mal, ni me equivoco.

[Ja Leto @_falsi1ke]

The irony when someone tries to punish you with silence and their silence brings you peace.

[Albert Wesker @AWeskerOfficial]

Chris, we're adults.
Surely we can survive one flight without an international incident.

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

People don’t defend what’s right anymore. They defend who they like, even when they know that person is wrong. Loyalty has replaced integrity.