Abu Darda' (RA) heard the Prophet (SAW) say that: "The father is the middle door of Paradise (i.e. the best way to Paradise), so it is up to you whether you take advantage of it or not." (Ibn Majah)
And they (Angels) said: "Glory to You (O Allah), we have no knowledge except what You have taught us. Indeed, it is You who is the All-Knowing, the All-Wise." (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:32)
We are not all in the same boat. We are in the same storm. Some have yachts, some canoes, and some are just drowning. Just be kind and try to help who you can. ❤🙏