There’s nothing wrong with seeking help if you are struggling to get past the infidelity. In fact, I encourage it. Surround yourself with other couples that have weathered the same or other significant issues in their marriage. Allow yourself to be encouraged.
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Take a minute to reflect on areas in your marriage where you trust your spouse completely. It could be something as simple as taking the trash out or paying the bills timely. Use them as building blocks in your journey to trust again.
Words have power. Encourage yourself verbally during your journey to rebuild. Positive words, actions, and energy by you and your spouse will, in time, produce positive results in your marriage.
Time to heal from a breach in trust is key. You must however be intentional in your actions to rebuild trust. Trust isn’t simply restored with the passage of time. For me, I prayed and asked God to order my steps... https://t.co/acVIysTtbp
Intentional communication is extremely important to rebuild trust. Make the effort to set aside time frequently to communicate with your spouse on issues you care about AND every day things
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Managing expectations of yourself and your spouse as you rebuild trust is key. Mistakes and set backs are par the course. Just remember to endeavor EACH day to do something to move your marriage forward.
Discernment is key in rebuilding trust, as your emotions will be front and center. It’s okay to step back and reflect on your next steps in the process. Remember, keep your eyes on the prize, which is restored... https://t.co/18Ltm6h3Ol
To move forward, you have to set goals. Have you set your goal for the day(week or month) for you and your spouse? Keep in mind it doesn’t have to be a monumental goal. Your objective is to move forward daily and that takes proaction. Baby steps...
“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful.”
~ Hebrews 10:23
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Marriage is a choice. If you choose to stay in your marriage after infidelity, you need to be prepared to fight for it. You already know it’ll be a difficult journey to restore the trust. You may not know that you... https://t.co/VFCuu4bEkd