To assume that a submissive man lacks masculinity is a very red-pill way of thinking.
It often takes far more self-awareness, confidence, and control for a man to submit to a woman by choice than to perform dominance out of insecurity.
A man who’s into feet is on the same spectrum as a man who loves giving cunnilingus. He’s not a weirdo, he’s a gourmet. He has a great taste and prefers exquisite delicacies.
Men who don’t want to lick every part of woman’s body are actual weirdos. Or just not straight.