@14ilovejews88 It's actually worse than you think, there's dudes whose wife had to take time away from home and they end up learning you can cook / clean / laundry with several kids and be done by like 1pm realizing it was never hard or needed full time job tier attention.
Gets especially weird when you start seeing information they are not aware of.
This was a big reason I used to avoid looking at peoples faces because it was incredibly uncomfortable to look into parts of their souls they couldn't see.