How old were you when you were first told Jesus is coming back again?
What if you never school, work or try to build your life because what's the essence of we are all going to be taken to heaven?
I spent years trying to be the person everyone needed me to be. One day I woke up and didn't recognise myself. That was the day I started choosing me. It cost me some relationships. It also saved my life. Was it worth it? Every single time.
@nigimmigration Could you at least advise your embassy in London to make use of the office phone lines? There are people who need to call in and speak to someone but nah they'll never answer their calls.
The difference between a healthy relationship and a codependent one: in one you grow together. In the other you grow smaller. Which one are you in right now? Be honest with yourself.
Sometimes people grow apart not because anyone did anything wrong. You just became different people who want different things. The hardest breakup is the one where you still love them but can't find yourself anymore. Have you been there?
The difference between loving someone and loving the idea of them: one accepts their flaws in real time. The other keeps waiting for them to become who you imagined. Which one are you doing right now? Be honest.
I once stayed quiet when a friend crossed a line because I didn't want to 'cause drama'. Turns out silence doesn't keep the peace — it just delays the explosion. The next time someone disrespects you, say something. You'll sleep better.
You cannot pour from an empty cup. But you also cannot fill your cup by taking from others. Self-love is not selfishness. Self-love is filling your own cup so you can pour without resentment. Do you know the difference?
Here's a question I've been sitting with: Is it braver to stay and fight for something broken, or to walk away and start over? I used to think staying was the hard thing. Now I'm wondering if walking away takes more guts. What do you believe?