Rape was already a thing back in the 1950s when women wore pleated, below-the-knee skirts. Rape was already a thing in the 1800s when women wore frocks and several Payers of clothing underneath. Rape has nothing to do with fashion and everything to do with rapists.
I wish my capacity to handle life was greater. Ik that once my kids are grown and out of the house it won’t feel so overwhelming and impossible, but I hate feeling like I’m wishing away the time.