@trishaposner They literally proved him right instantly. They are gleeful to be the stereotype they want us not to notice. They even lied about not doxxing him, a lie you perpetuate.
@SpevV2 She posted something hypocritical, a guy pointed that out sarcastically and she clapped back by making fun of him for being cheated on and trying to kill himself.
She claims to be all about mental health and went straight to "haha you got cheated on and wanna kill yourself"
@ValdisVox She's getting hate because she made fun of a dude for getting cheated on and trying to kill himself.
Pretending otherwise makes you complicit.
Deme, the VTuber, has BPD, borderline personality disorder.
It's something I have relatively intimate knowledge of, as my sister has BPD, and I had a coworker whose wife has BPD.
They have intense, rapidly shifting emotions with fear of abandonment, along with huge defensive responses. They have the uncanny ability to always see themselves as the victim, no matter what the context is or the circumstances, and due to the impulsivity in their "defense," they can become quite unhinged.
People with BPD also have solidly black and white thinking, seeing the world in a us vs them mentality, which is how she can justify her vile attack against Chibi. These people practically never take accountability, fault, or anything, often blaming everyone else except themselves.
They will frequently engage in DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender). They will deny the wrongdoing and then attack the person raising the concern, often in a screaming, emotionally volatile tone, and then reverse the original instigator as the victim.
They can often "mask" their symptoms in a public setting for a while, often for many years, but after enough stressors mount, they crack and that mask slips off.
She can blame it all on PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) all she wants, but her behavior is textbook BPD... the same kind of toxic behavior my sister displayed, and the same stories from my coworker with the BPD wife.
Some of the stories include ones like the BPD wife intentionally harming herself, often seriously enough to be hospitalized, only to blame it on the husband, or even reframing it because the "husband" was emotionally abusive. Similarly, my sister has self-harmed on multiple occasions only to escape discipline from my parents, for fear she might escalate. My sister's husband was also blamed for all the "ruination" that "he" caused against her.
The coworker and my sister's husband both shared the same phenotype. Quiet, reserved, nice, and harmless... but you can tell behind all of it, they were deeply in love but also deeply scared of their spouse... not knowing when the next blowup is going to be.
The Simps for women with BPD can be just as toxic, as their pull during the good moments can be legitimately magnetic, and they form strong parasocial bonds with creators such as her. People with BPD, when they are happy, are very charismatic, charming, and very warm... almost a complete mirror reverse of the depth of their toxic downward spiral.
The simps become blinded by her toxic nature, reinforce her DARVO attacks, and so many idealize women with mental illnesses. "That crazy chic" is the trope that so much of the simp economy is catered to.
TLDR... Stay away from people with BPD. They are dangerous and will often ruin your life, even through a parasocial lens, and treatment often has limited success.
To add to this, I talked to my community about what people are saying. I was confused with some people calling me a hypocrite, I do advocate mental health for women and men. I however do not care about chibi. I made the mistake of saying the first thing that came out of my head when seeing his username, but i should’ve been the better person and said nothing. I’ve learn to hold my tongue in most things but I legit got surprised seeing the username and the association with it.
For people who think i’m backpedaling no. I’m sorry for slipping up and not thinking before talking but i’m not sorry for what i said tbh esp that it was towards him. He’s a piece of shit and everything about him is disgusting to me. Not because he got cheated on but because he’s a weirdo in general.
For the original post, I didn’t make the post for people to delete art of me. I did it just as a reminder of my stance which hasn’t change. It annoyed me that people have the time to scroll on my page but not take the time to literally read the OG post and the REPLY NOT AN HOUR AFTER SPECIFYING WHAT I EXACTLY MEANT. So yeah it annoyed me when all the blue badges came crawling in.
My bad to my community for getting into drama again. I know I’m not losing anything valuable when it’s this type of crowd. Pancakes and waffles. Also, I’m not stupid I know me saying my stance on the porn thing isn’t gonna stop people from doing it. the post was for people who CARED about my
stance.
@demenishki@ChibiReviews Classic modern woman response. "Lol you got cheated on". You will be used and abused like the fleshlight you are by ever man you ever claim to love. And then have the audacity to ask, "why me".
@beyoncegarden When you choose to divorce, you're choosing to give up time with your child to someone else. Eventually your partner is going to move on, and someone alien to you is going to take on part of your responsibility as a mother/father.
If you dont want that, dont divorce.
@mhdksafa And with those Arabic numerials we can see thst Arabic migrants are 20-30 times more likely to rape our women. And 10000 times more likely to try and behead us.
XBOX showed off State of Decay 3 today. That means today is a great day to remind everyone that Zoe Quinn was hired to work on that game as a Senior Narrative Designer.
That's right. Even after all she'd done to damage gaming & her involvement in driving a man to k*ll himself, this place hired her.
Absolutely disgusting. Be sure people know.
@HantsPolice@smg1664 If the world was a just place your officers would be hanging by nooses in the public square.
But its not a just place and your officers are allowed to execute young men for the color of their skin.
Your 'officers', and everyone like them will rot in hell.
@TruthFairy131 I have never once, in my entire life, sanctioned the idea of a lynching mob until now. Those police need to be lynched. They needed to be hunted down in the streets by a mob like the animals they are. They knowingly aided and abetted the execution of this young man.