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A Male ARMY Speaks Up: Let’s Find Out How Many Men Actually Listen to BTS
For years, I’ve called myself an ARMY while contributing to the fandom mostly from the sidelines, through the occasional translation, analysis, and long posts about BTS songs and letters. Teaching, grading, counseling students, translating history books, surviving Korean work culture. Life has a way of swallowing your time whole.
But now our guys are back. Still thriving. Still filling stadiums. Still somehow managing to make millions of people feel understood across languages and borders.
And lately, I’ve been thinking: maybe it’s time for middle-aged male ARMYs like me to stop acting like we have to enjoy BTS quietly and in the shadows.
Men can be oddly performative around masculinity. We’ll scream ourselves hoarse watching twenty-two men chase a ball across a field, but hesitate to admit a song made us emotional. We’ll spend hours debating whiskey, watches, cars, or baseball statistics, yet act as if openly loving music about loneliness, fear, hope, or loving oneself somehow threatens our dignity.
So let me say this clearly as a Korean middle-aged man: BTS has been one of the most meaningful artistic acts of my adult life. And I know I’m far from alone.
After talking to enough male ARMYs over the years, I realized the issue is not absence. It’s hesitation. Many male ARMYs are still reluctant to be visible. Some worry about being judged. Some think they’ll look strange. Some probably spent their whole lives being taught that men should appreciate things from a distance, never too enthusiastically, never too sincerely.
From now on, I want to write more openly about BTS from the perspective of male ARMYs, especially Korean middle-aged male ARMYs. I may be one of the very few voices representing this group in the social media world.
And yes, I fully intend to drag some of my fellow ahjussi ARMY friends to concerts or live theater viewings with me one day.
There’s also one stereotype I really want to dismantle once and for all: the idea that only women listen to BTS.
Take ���Spring Day” on Melon, for example. As you can see in the image below, today alone, May 15, 2026, the song had 62,018 listeners on the platform. About 43% of them, roughly 27,000 people, were men.
Now stretch that across nearly a decade. More than 9 million Melon subscribers have listened to “Spring Day.” The male listener ratio for BTS songs generally falls around 35–45%, so we are potentially talking about millions of male listeners for this song alone. Millions.
Korean men. Fathers. Students. Office workers. Soldiers. Taxi drivers. Professors. Men drinking beer after work by the Han River. Men who probably recognize the opening piano notes of “Spring Day” the moment they hear them.
So the next time someone says BTS is “only for women,” show them these statistics.
Anyway, enough sociology for one Friday night.
I’ll also upload a photo of myself opening my favorite IPA to celebrate another exhausting but meaningful week of life and work.
If you’re holding a cold drink tonight too,
whether it’s beer, coffee, tea, or just convenience store chocolate milk after a brutal shift,
cheers, my ARMY friends around the world!
BTS Through the Eyes of Korean Middle-Aged Men
Yesterday after work, I met up with my old Seoul National University friends for the first time in a long while. We are all middle-aged professionals. Two are married with children, and two of us are still single. Over soju, makgeolli, and endless anju, we spent the whole night talking about family, kids, work, and aging.
Then, unexpectedly, the conversation turned to BTS.
One of the friends is a lawyer. During SUGA’s incident two years ago, he helped me understand what was happening legally and what would likely happen next, which I later relayed to my ARMY friends who were anxious and confused.
Anyway, my lawyer friend suddenly brought up the footage of the enormous crowd gathered outside the Mexican Presidential Palace when BTS visited the president. He said that, in his life, he had only ever seen crowds like that for the Pope. The others had seen the clips too, and they were all amazed by it.
I am the only ARMY among us, but one friend casually listens to BTS songs, another has a wife who is a dedicated ARMY and attends every concert in Korea, and the last one mostly knows BTS through television and social media.
We talked about how much pride BTS has brought to Korea. And because we are all politically liberal, we also talked about how meaningful it feels to see BTS openly support values we believe in. They supported former Democratic president Moon Jae-in, went to the United Nations to speak about mental health, and have donated enormous amounts of money and time to good causes over the years. They also all fulfilled their mandatory military service honorably and with distinction.
I also brought up the recent backlash questioning BTS’s masculinity, and my friends could not understand it at all. They never viewed BTS as anything other than masculine men. We admire men who are hardworking, responsible, emotionally grounded, respectful toward others, and empathetic. BTS embodies those qualities. What is more masculine than that?
The same feeling exists in the Korean online community that I belong to. Most of the members are middle-aged professional men, and BTS is held in very high regard there too. And throughout the years, across more than a hundred posts about BTS, I have never seen anyone question their masculinity, humanity, or worth. Some of posts about BTS received over 5,000 views and over 100 comments, yet not once did I come across a negative comment about BTS.
Quite the opposite, actually. Some even jokingly call RM “hyung” because of how thoughtful and mature he comes across in his writing, speeches, and actions.
I can say this clearly: We middle-aged Korean men view BTS very positively and see them as unquestionably masculine. We see them as a source of national pride and as strong role models for younger generations.
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