I pity snails a lot. A male snail can be coming back home from work, and a human nonchalantly pick it and drop it where it will have to trek the whole weekend to get home. Now he’s going to spend the rest of his life trying to explain to his family how he was abducted by a giant, teleported to a utopian parallel universe, and then left there.
A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed.
Not every uncomfortable emotional disclosure is trauma dumping or a case of distributing negativity.
Being in relationship with people, if it will be a real and meaningful one, will necessarily include being willing to share burdens.
Relationships are not a customer-service experience when you only get served and get to complain about and point out everything that doesn't meet your expectations. It is messy and hard, and for people who have the grit to allow themselves and others to actually be human beings. It is not a place for running and hiding from discomfort.
A friend indeed is one who has counted the cost; that there will be burdens to bear. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
HOW TO SELECT YOUR BABY'S SEX.
Sperm cells are either X or Y. The Egg cell is always X. If X-Sperm cell meets the egg(X) the baby will be a Girl (XX). If Y-Sperm cell meets the egg(X), the baby will be a Boy (XY).
The Y-Sperm cells move fast but die fast (its lifespan is about 24hrs). X-Sperm cells move slowly but survive longer (up to 3-4days).
Therefore, if you have intercourse some days before ovulation, most of the Y-Sperm cells would have died leaving mostly X-Sperm cells-
to fertilized the egg
Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation period.
1. From the first day you see the blood of your period.
2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the first day of the blood stain.
3. Mark the 15th day with a pen.
4. Mark 3 days before the 15th day, and mark 3 days after the 15th day.
6. You will notice you have 7 days marked.
These 7 days are your ovulation/fertile days also known as unsafe period.
That is if you have sex on any of these days, then you have 98% chances of being pregnant.
7. Do this every month diligently
For Example
1. If your period is 11th July, ,
2. 15 days after the first day of the blood stain will be on 25th of this July too (2weeks after) counting from 11th.
3. 15th day is on the 25th July
4. 3days before the 15th day is 22, 23, 24.
5. 3days after 25th July is 26,27,28.
6. 22-28th July (7days) is when you are ovulating. It is your fertile period.
**Don't forget that the 4 days is a reminder that sperm stays in the female body for about 4 days. Any sexual contact in between ovulation period will form-something ...
If you want a baby girl, have
sex between 3 days before ovulation (22- 24th)
Female sperm swim slowly but can stay inside woman body for days without dying off,
For a baby boy on the main ovulation day and 3 days after 25th.(26,27,28)
Tomorrow is Monday.
Fast if you are able to, if not earn reward by reminding others.
Remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers (Q51:55).
Baarakallahu Feekum.