@RogueGock I don't understand the logic at all 😭 I feel like trans people should be supportive of...All the types of trans? Am I crazy for thinking that? We're all in the same fight, even if the experiences are different, no? Why WOULDN'T a sister help out a brother?
@Athingthatmoves@luvvrocket Hurting. That was until I found another person who used to SH, and helped ease me out of it. Not using the whole "it's bad to do" thing, but instead helped me channel my energy into other things. Hiding it or shaming people will just make the hurt worse.
@Athingthatmoves@luvvrocket The problem stems from when people are shamed because of scars. I started SHing when I was maybe 10. I then hid them, ashamed of myself because of how negatively it was seen as. My own dad assumed I was doing so for attention and a trend, when it was because I was genuinely
@Hericks_Draken@leemuhfucka Wait so what is the issue?
1. To my understanding, a PONYSONA is a depiction of yourself as a pony. That is them.
2. They explained that the issue WAS them being disabled.
@fryguyc@virtualfarted@Renware_ It is only derogatory if it's used against someone negatively. I myself enjoy being called it because I am less attached to humanity in general. Being called "it" brings me comfort. I'm sorry people call you it as an insult. I'm sorry you experience that.
@fryguyc@virtualfarted@Renware_ I'm sorry you experienced that. I'm open about it purely because I'm surrounded by supportive people. I'm sorry you have people who would spread that around, truly. It is never ok to air out someone like that.
@hungryandarmed@itaokkotsu Some nonbinary people may still use he/him or she/her pronouns. Demiboy/girls and genderfluids are 2 examples I've seen ^^ They're still NB, they're under the umbrella, but they're also men/women in some cases!
@dolluiri@CostAccomplish Hi, I don't wear a bra often for personal reasons! I can actually say that I feel the fabric more along my shoulders and back, not so much my chest. It really depends on the person. Maybe she doesn't feel it? ^^
@nocutitout@RABIDGRAVEYARD Ok, looking into that, I definitely would not. That depiction was made with the intent to harm. I'M talking specifically about people who draw themselves.
@kori_no_tora@Floki_Vt@NellieGoesBoom@princesalamwane Yeah, but some women also wear stockings. This is a valid concern, actually. In terms of a medical event regarding your leg, you would want the medical team to have access to the wound, no? Sometimes that would involve cutting the material around it.
@nocutitout@RABIDGRAVEYARD I can see why seeing images of someone who may have a beard and feminine features can come across as odd at first glance, but I also want to note that sometimes you just need to look into the person because sometimes it really IS just a self portrait.
@nocutitout@RABIDGRAVEYARD Trans WOMEN, sure. But transfem is different from what I was told. I saw a post about a nonbinary person depicting themselves now they wanted and people assumed it was a caricature, despite the person REPEATEDLY saying it was their persona. Even had them as a PFP.
@CafeEsperaza@SkippityDooooo I see it as maybe someone feeling attached to that specific person? Or maybe they just don't get dysphoria from the beard. Some do want to pass, yes, but others just present how they wish to.
@CafeEsperaza@SkippityDooooo I just see it as the same as hairy legs honestly. If my body grows a beard, it grows. I myself may shave because the texture of beards give me major sensory issues, but others may just keep it. The bearded lady was always considered a freak, yet that was a natural occurrence.
@I_am_Error1981 Exactly! The thing that also gets me is that lately, whenever people grill a drawing like this, it's typically a nonbinary person or the artist themselves. Sometimes a caricature IS just genuinely someone's experience.
@DmVariant Seeing this reminds me of that one nonbinary artist who drew themselves and got accused of making a trans woman caricature for the same reason shown here. It's just confusing atp. I do agree that they probably should've shown the depiction differently, but there ARE people who
@gimbusgimbus@troiaas Well maybe because he knew what the intention was, he never saw it as racist. He was just recreating the PTSD meme, knows the makeup is green, and posted it for funny. Not everyone has a team of people to double check for anything else ^^