It makes perfect sense to me that BDSM can be very appealing to some neurodivergent people. So much of vanilla dating relies on reading between the lines. Kink is often: tell me what you want, tell me what you don’t want, tell me the rules.
dom that goes “feels good, huh darling?” while stretching a pretty thing's hole open, voice low in their ear and hands gripping their body tight enough to bruise, watching their sub get dazed from the attention and touch. yeah.