fifichiwocha

Fearfully n wndrfully made

[fifichiwocha @HottieFi1]

@beckythemba Huuu bantu. Empakhathini yini?

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

The easiest person to take for granted is usually the hardest to replace. Why?

Because they made loyalty look normal. Because they made consistency look normal. Because they made effort look normal

So normal that you start believing you can find that anywhere. That's why many people leave good partners NOT because they found better BUT because they assume that can be easily found

The person you get "bored" of is often the person you'll end up looking for in other people

If you have that person in your life, value them.

[fifichiwocha @HottieFi1]

@beckythemba @Makomborerol Kungofamba uchiendq

[N’wa Mucanyi 🫶🏾 @KhananiShingan1]

Your man is known by your mom, siblings, cousins, friends… even your dog 😭 but on his side the only person who knows you is his 3-year-old nephew who just waves when you’re on FaceTime

And you see nothing wrong with that ?🤣

[fifichiwocha @HottieFi1]

@beckythemba @Fadzeym Oh boy

[Thandekile Moyo @Mamoxn]

The irony,
Of a Gynecologist advising women to hold on to cheating partners,
When physically,
One of the first things to suffer when dealing with a promiscuous partner,
Is your gynecology.

From UTIs,
To STIs,
To cervical cancer risks heightened by HPV,
To pelvic inflammatory disease,
Which can cause scarring in the fallopian tubes,
Lead to chronic infections,
And could, over time, result in infertility.

She doesn't even have to advocate for divorce,
She could have given advice on how to survive in a relationship with a promiscuous partner,
She says nothing about consistently using protection, including female condoms,
Nothing about PREP,
No advice about regular testing or consulting a healthcare provider for a risk assessment,
Advice one would expect from a Gynecologist.
Just "pop your pills and give him respect" she says,

This advice puts women's health at risk.
It's not just harmful, it's medically negligent!
Did she address any of that in the rest of the conversation?

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

at a stage in my life where being misunderstood tastes sweeter than diluting myself to be more palatable to anyone. making room for the ones that make space for me and moving accordingly.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

flowers don’t worry about applause. you don’t need the worlds validation to unfold into your fullest self.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

The same qualifications that got someone a job are the same qualifications others have but remain jobless. Let me remind you: the same illness you recovered from is the same illness that has taken millions to their graves. Be grateful and always give thanks to God

[Vitus @holl4fs]

no one can ever gaslight me into thinking im a bad person..i have my ways & i have my days, but im solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way

[Hon. Takudzwa Titus Nyanhanga @SirTitusVeTech]

I walked into a hotel and after going through the menu, I ordered some food.

After about 20 mins a group of guys and ladies walked in & ordered theirs.

To my dïsmay, these fōlks got served first. I watched as they began to eat & laugh heartily.

I even overheard one of them brãggiñg about how connected he is to everyone in the hotel and I felt mōçked.

I decided to leave. Unable to take it anymore , I called the waiter. He calmly told me: "Yours is a special order, being prepared by the chief chef himself.

Their orders were prepared hurriedly by students on attachment because the top chefs are busy with yours Sir. That's why they were served first. Please have some juice as you wait". I calmed down & waited patiëñtly.

Shortly after, my meal was served by 6 waiters. Unknown to me, the owner of the hotel (who happened to be an old long løst friend of mine) saw me when I entered and decided to surprise me.

She changed my simple meal to a five-star meal. The party at the other table were shøcked.

They couldn't stop stãring. Suddenly they were the ones murmüring, asking why they didn't get that kind of service and meal.

LESSON: Such is life! Some people are ahead of you and are eating now, laughing at you and talking about how they are smarter, wiser and better than you, how they are well connected, blessed, have money and are enjoying life .

You are waiting tirelëssly wondering why it's taking so long to breakthrough, You ëndūre mōçkery and hūmiliātion.

Maybe you have cōntemplated suïçide, gone throughout deprêssioōn or súfféred severe meñtāl ānxiëty.

Do not w0rry! The owner of the world has seen you and doesn't want you to be served a simple meal like those making a mōçkery of you. You're waiting long because yours is a special meal.

It takes time to prepare. And only chief chefs prepare them.

Wait for your meal and relax .!!!

BETTER DAYS AHEAD

GOD BLESS YOU 🙏❤️

[MaNcwane @luhle_gwamanda]

https://t.co/OfJqzlUKCr

Nantsi google drive with novels bafazi.❤️🤭

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

come back into your own life, you’ve been missing for a while. lost in everyone else’s energy, trapped by external perception, focused on distractions instead of your divine path, come back into your own life so the love you’ve abandoned finally finds you at home within yourself.

[Miss’✨ @misskeilondon]

Ladies, be mindful when choosing who you create life with. Our children don’t deserve to grow up receiving the bare minimum because of decisions we made without discernment. They deserve stability, love, & presence not to be the collateral damage of our unhealed patterns.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

you may not be exactly where you want to be but who you are now, in this very moment, is deserving of applause too. every single version of yourself that you once were was a key needed to unlock the next level of your life.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

some people will naturally understand the walls you’ve built over time to protect your soul and others will lack the patience to learn why, but always remember that you’ve worked too hard on yourself to compromise your growth for energy that doesn’t respect your boundaries.

[Tshépi 🤍 M. @TshepiMOfficial]

The real flex is training your mind to be stronger than your feelings and your boundaries stronger than your empathy.

[Nywele Ngumu @mariahsudi]

If you have a child that can articulate themselves at an early age and exudes confidence , you have an obligation to ensure that the environment you place them in does not break this out of them.. you cannot surround them with adults with poor self esteem and ignorance

[Zoya🕊️ @Zoya_ki_batein]

Choose a man who shows up when it matters, makes you feel wanted and leads with care. Someone who invests in your peace and never stops proving that you're his priority. Consistency isn't just about love - it's about respect, reassurance, stability and effort every single day>>