Everyone talks about the male loneliness epidemic but no one talks about the hot, successful and smart girls who can’t find suitable partners cus dating in this day and age is equivalent to an involuntary check in at the mental hospital.
@hy_wemmy When someone truly values you, your wins, worries, and milestones matter to them. A whole week of not asking about something important says more than words ever could.
I think having a lover, not a boyfriend not a husband, just a lover who courts you and cares about you and you’re obsessed with each other but live separately without societal pressure is so chic and very hot.
Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score.
And eventually, the bill comes due.
Just because I’m posting about God doesn’t mean I’m healed or better than you. I’m still a sinner. I still struggle. But everyday His grace picks me back up.
The amount of men that don’t understand sexual coercion is scary. Just because someone gave into your advances after multiple attempts of refusal or rejection isn’t consent! You’re a boneless rapist.