If someone thinks submission in BDSM is a sign of weakness or defeat, it just means theyโve never truly understood it.
The submissive role is fascinating for you - intense, cleansing, almost therapeutic.
We both operate within rules and boundaries weโve agreed on together.
Youโve handed over decision-making to me. You have to listen to me, whether you like it in that moment or not. Will your behaviour have consequences? Of course it will.
You might earn a reward, praise, the chance to continue taking part in the game. Or you might be punished.
Though I know that, for you, those punishments feel more like rewards. I know when youโre behaving that way on purpose.
Our games will never be about frightening you. Theyโll always be about consciously building a dynamic: instruction - response - consequence.
You feel that your behaviour matters. That youโre being watched. That I enforce the rules.
That turns you on, doesnโt it?