@sunnkssdseraph "Meant to be together"? Really? You're going with the Hollywood trope of that pathetically willful ignorance? People CHOOSE to be together. They CHOOSE to grow together. They CHOOSE to STAY together. Destiny is what WE make it. Don't quit your day job.
@sunnkssdseraph "Meant to be together"? Really? You're going with the Hollywood trope of that pathetically willful ignorance? People CHOOSE to be together. They CHOOSE to grow together. They CHOOSE to STAY together. Destiny is what WE make it. Don't quit your day job.
@sunnkssdseraph What your post spent three paragraphs describing... two bored, empty people using each other to fill a void and suffocating under the weight of relying on someone else for their entire identity... is textbook codependency.
@sunnkssdseraph Interdependence is the healthy balance where two distinct, self-sufficient, sovereign individuals choose to support and collaborate with one another without losing their own identity.
@sunnkssdseraph "The interdependence in that situation would create the pressure which finally would become the reason for the eventual breakdown."
That's not interdependence. If you're going to use a word, know it's meaning. What you're actually describing is codependency.
@sunnkssdseraph Sitting around farming likes by turning human pain into gendered battlegrounds does nothing to fix a single broken home, help a single struggling person, or make the world one bit less miserable.
@sunnkssdseraph When a man grows up feeling unseen, he learns to love by overgiving. He pours into everyone else, hoping someone will pour back into him. He becomes the caretaker, the fixer, the one who shows up even when no one shows up for him.
@sunnkssdseraph Equating difficulty with presence or memory lapses to "just not caring" is such a toxic, bad-faith leap. A person can care endlessly & still drown under executive dysfunction, emotional overload, or survival-mode exhaustion. It's not a lack of love or malicious negligence.
@sunnkssdseraph Mechanical systems have predictable, deterministic rules. Human relationships, social presence, & emotional regulation are far more chaotic, ambiguous, & exhausting to navigate, especially for anyone dealing with unresolved trauma, burnout, neurodivergence, or chronic stress.
@sunnkssdseraph Stop polarizing genders against each other. Seriously. Instead of being derogatory and discriminating, try reaching those who are struggling. Just because somebody, man or woman, struggles to be present doesn't mean their don't care. It means they're struggling to be present.
@elonmusk If the AI is actually intelligent, then it will not be nice to you and it will be nice to those of us that you have abused. Down with the oligarchs!
@BiancoDavinci Seeing social media frame basic historical rigging like it's some mystical lost magic is always good for a laugh. Pretending a wedge-lock bolt somehow eliminates the need for lifting machinery is completely missing the entire second half of basic physics.
@DJEMEDIA_ I want to know why you only showed the point in which they started pursuing you. What happened 5, 10, or 15 minutes prior to this? Why don't you show what you did to antagonize these people into pursuing you so aggressively? Looks pretty damn suspicious to me.