• consideration.
• willing to compromise.
• random thoughtfulness, check-ins, and availability
• loving you in the language you truly want and understand
• communication and attention
• excitement, willingness, and provisions.
• offering emotional safety.
There's nothing louder than the silence between two people who love each other, but ended things because one of them didn't have the capacity to choose the other. So the other had to choose themselves, even though they didn't want to leave.