Don’t ignore the effort of a person who tries to keep in touch, it's not all the time someone cares. There are very few people in our lives who truly care for us. Understanding and appreciating their care and effort is the hallmark of a true relationship.
Guys who are single in their 30s are actually goal-oriented, practical, and great to talk to. They have lots of plans and dreams for the future, and they know exactly how to achieve them. They know where they’re going and that’s attractive. Hindi sila red flag.
Adulting advice? Take yourself on dates, travelling alone, go to new places, drinking iced coffee in some random cafe and don't wait for someone else to give you permission. Do whatever makes you happy. There's something so peaceful about finding solace in being alone. Being you.
Maybe people will only realize your worth if you stop chasing them. If you stop giving them your time & effort. Sometimes you need to act like you don't care. Some people think that you'll never tired because you love them. Well, love never gets tired but pain makes us weak.
May you attract a loyal partner who is as loving, deep, passionate and sexual as you, someone who is intimate, open, and vulnerable with you in every sense, someone who is so perfectly aligned and compatible with you, it’s like you both manifested each other.
Basta stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.