My boyfriend has always complained about his friends living in his apartment when they have theirs. They don't pay any bills. He pays all the house expenses while they live on him. I suggested that he tell them to leave. He said he couldn't because they've been together for long.
So I took matters into my hands, I went there with foodstuffs, cooked, and served them all the first day.
2nd day, the soup finished, my guy gave me money for another soup, that one too finished the next day.
4th day, I went to them and asked that they give me 50k to cook. One of them said, "ha iyen lor far o." Others laughed. I ended up cooking another soup with my own money.
But this time, the soup was for my man alone. I made sure I packed the soup. One even had the guts to attempt to microwave the soup. I walked up to him and whispered,'i cooked that soup for my man with my money.' He returned it. I would go to the living room whenever they are playing games and change the station to Netflix.
They finally left the 6th day of my presence. I stayed for 2weeks. My guy was happy. And I felt like his knight in short dress.
A month later, we broke up, and barely a week after our breakup. He started posting his friends again. He posted a video of them playing games in his apartment and captioned it "blood ๐ฉธ"
Since then, I have always asked about friendship and boundaries before going further.
I genuinely ADORE people that are well mannered. People that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others. People that carry themselves with humility. People that talk with so much gentleness. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak.
I called one Big head and ended up with a story on why they didnโt press his head after birth and how he wished he could fix it . I became a therapist.
Mara to Simba: you had a night with me and you couldnโt evenโฆ I think I put my toe on you. I stretched cos you know โoh itโs a bit hotโ I put my toeโฆthe way you moved so fast, as if I had covidโฆ..
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