This man is making it known that his life is in danger and it's obviously the doing of an obsessed sneaky link and y'all are in the comments laughing at him and telling him he deserves it.
I hope the reaction would still be the same if genders are switched.
You hypocritical fools! Yes! Including my mutuals there!
Alright, sir.
So my question is this:
What do you term as violence?
If a woman locks your shirt or blocks your way from going out or seize your car keys, those are triggering situations aren't they?
Should a man walk away from such relationship or marriage because of that?
I believe we know what violence is and what men should not tolerate.
For example:
A woman threatening you with a knife or hitting an object to cause you extreme physical harm, those can be termed as extreme violence or threat to life.
Those are not what I am talking about on the thread.
What do you think is the most misused word in 9ja?
I'll go first.
MALICE
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What you call Malice is Stonewalling.
Refusal to talk to a person and cut off communication during conflict, or anger, is called STONEWALLING.
Malice simply means intention to commit harm.
Nobody is keeping malice with you. That phrase doesn't exist and doesn't make sense in English. The person is stonewalling you.
You can't walk away from every violent situation with your girlfriend or wife.
And you shouldn't.
Quarrels are part of relationship or marriage.
You are the man who is the leader and must look for ways to deescalate the situation.
And then you assess the genesis of it and learn from it.
Women are naturally strong headed and daring.
Especially to men that have seen their nakedness.
You'll never find a perfect woman.
But you must find a woman that you can lead and she'll learn to be submissive to you as a wife.
Because submission is earned and not a given just because you're her husband.
A woman does not automatically become a submissive wife just because you have married her.
How you lead her will determine how well she'll be submissive to you.
So you need to prepare your mind.
Women will always act like adult babies.
Will you disown your child just because he or she is throwing some tantrums?
Women throw tantrums frequently.
As long as she's with the man who she sees as her boyfriend or husband.
Stop judging women romantically from the way your female colleagues or bosses behave in the office.
End.