Men that have never seen/experienced true/real love come to social media to garbage in 'Women do not love men'.
Their parents who could have been the best model failed at it.
Unfortunately, with this mentality, they'll never experience it cos they'll think they're being scammed.
For women 30 and above, it’s marital pressure. For men 30 and above, it’s financial stability pressure. I hope we all extend enough grace to eachother. The women weren’t automatically promiscuous or had bad characters and the men weren’t lazy.
It’s simply life at play.
We really need to dead this narrative that any lady above 30 and unmarried automatically lived a promiscuous life. That’s a blanket statement. Too many factors play.
• Long term committed relationship that didn’t lead to marriage.
• Career focused.
• Rejection of suitors by her family.
• Series of heartbreak.
Life isn’t black and white. There are younger promiscuous women who married early and stayed married.
There are women who were married in their 20s and single by 30. There are men who were rich in their 20s and struggling by 30.
You think say you sabi navigate life?
If a third party ever gets to hear your gist, your friend or a family member leaked it.
Most bloggers in Nigeria are lazy AF!! They don't investigate any news that comes to them but post immediately as long as it brings traffic to their page.
You will be shocked at the number of DMs they receive daily from people you legit thought cared so much about you.
Having a bestfriend who comes to you discuss other people always should be a red flag. Y'all call it gossip but these same people won't think twice but to spread your own secrets with others too.
Stay guided 📌
One thing that will radicalise you to live freely and responsibly is understanding that one of the most common regrets among elderly people is that they never had the courage to live true to themselves but instead spent their younger years living the life expected of them.
In 2012, I stopped taking walks because of some men
A provisions seller warned me to stop my walks because she overheard a sinister plan when they were gisting. A week later, I also got a warning from someone who knows the boys.
My offense? I refused the advances of one of them
When women shake their legs during or after sex, it’s usually because their muscles are contracting and relaxing due to intense physical activity (happens during workouts too). It doesn’t mean they orgasmed or that they even enjoyed the sex. It only means pleasure if they say so.