A CERTIFIED BÀBÀLAWO&HERBALIST.
Spirituality philosopher.
Critical thinker.
I bring balance to humanity through IFÁ,ÌṢẸṢE&ÒRÌṢÀ. Dm for spiritual consultation.
I don't think chuck felt jealousy toward Jimmy, He just want him to follow the right procedures in all his dealings. He understand Jimmy is fund of following illegal route to achieve his aim which doesn't sit well with chuck due to his calibre and can damage his reputation in legal field because they bear same surname.
He sees Jimmy as a natural born conman. To chuck, someone with such personality shouldn't even be thinking of becoming a licence lawyer.
If na two stupid idiot born you. Your life don already spoil. You fit dey deny am. But No worry, you go dey notice am small small with the way you go dey reason and the kind decisions you dey always take especially when stake dey high and pressure mount.
Your foolishness na genetic, even if you try align yourself with smart people. Once you drift away small from them. You go go back to default settings.
Na the foolishness of your mama and papa dey worry you. E dey painful to admit but na truth i talk.
You will be shocked when you see men with different roaster of women week in week out. who still can't call out their woman bullshit. These things are much more deeper than just having sexual options. It's more of a psychological stuff or kind of emotional dependency issue or image management of not wanting to appear threatening to their woman.
Sure,To some men multiple sexual options does it for them. It lit up the fire in their belly to always call a spade a spade with their women. But what will then happen to him if that sexual pipeline runs dry and you're left with only one source? Or all your sources coincidentally decides to move mad at same period or time. Would you start tipping toes, walking on eggshell or mincing words just to keep the honeypot open?
With personal experience and all. the best option is to always call out any woman bullshit even if she's currently or your only source of pleasure. You don't have it in you If the only thing you rely on to call out her bullshit is because you have multiple sexual access. Abundance mindset is built in scarcity.
You shed light on this topic that nothing really left to add to it.
I have write in support of this clips multiple times but find myself deleting it. Because quoting you with my writing will be me saying exactly what you've said but in long form and some fancy sentences.
I have seen countless of what you said play out irl that causes spiritual war between baaisegun and one of ọmọ ẹgbẹ́ who is also an herbalist. There're some babaláwo who will not grant your invite if you call them for idafa if they sense one babaláwo they have beef with is present there. And most of these beef was cause by a customer greed, impatient and hunting for spiritual knowledge which lead to them intentionally/unintentionally badmouthing one spiritual practitioner for another.
Most newbies will meet another herbalist/babaláwo at a place they have been using in seeking spiritual help/knowledge then start asking for the person's number or where their ojuba is. They will went else where to do itefa but keep telling you to teach them how to chant their odu ifa, that the babaláwo who did itefa for them didn't teach them.
I wonder why they're always in hurry to know things that took some babaláwo years of practice to master. And what most of them failed understand is that Imọ pin ya bi ọna ni.
You shed light on this topic that nothing really left to add to it.
I have write in support of this clips multiple times but find myself deleting it. Because quoting you with my writing will be me saying exactly what you've said but in long form and some fancy sentences.
I have seen countless of what you said play out irl that causes spiritual war between baaisegun and one of ọmọ ẹgbẹ́ who is also an herbalist. There're some babaláwo who will not grant your invite if you call them for idafa if they sense one babaláwo they have beef with is present there. And most of these beef was cause by a customer greed, impatient and hunting for spiritual knowledge which lead to them intentionally/unintentionally badmouthing one spiritual practitioner for another.
Most newbies will meet another herbalist/babaláwo at a place they have been using in seeking spiritual help/knowledge then start asking for the person's number or where their ojuba is. They will went else where to do itefa but keep telling you to teach them how to chant their odu ifa, that the babaláwo who did itefa for them didn't teach them.
I wonder why they're always in hurry to know things that took some babaláwo years of practice to master. And what most of them failed understand is that Imọ pin ya bi ọna ni.
This sound good and self-soothing on a surface level. But when you think about it, it mostly always counterproductive.
Maybe said person did deserve less or don't deserve it at all. or deserve it but don't put enough effort to get it.
It's not only Twitter. All social media are leveller. It's where people who are yet to go through the ebbs and flow of life tend to shit on people who already worth their salt.
They equates their attention seeking tendency. With the support of logion of idiot that agree to their stupidity as them being significant in the grand scheme of things.
It's useless to warn people about something if no one can have a conversation about why it's happening and what must be done to stop it.
And that conversation is something that the tech elite are totally unprepared to have, because the solution will hit them directly in the pocketbook.
I can tell you how to fix the fertility crisis in three words.
But I can't actually fix the fertility crisis with those words, because y'all are not ready to do what's necessary. You think you are, but you're not. And you'll understand why I say you're not when I tell you the three words:
Stop. Hiring. Women.
Now do you get it?
A moment ago, you thought you were willing to do anything to fix this existential threat to every part of the world that matters.
Now, you want to ask me if there isn't, possibly, some gentler way that doesn't involve any nasty shocks to our nice, peaceful, tolerant, inclusive liberal way of life.
Or you're just calling me a big meanie.
Doesn't matter. When you argue with the point I am making here, you are arguing with Mother Nature, and I promise that Mother Nature cannot hear you, and she does not care.
Women already have a job, a job they evolved for. A job that is so demanding that they have to 100% specialized for it.
Women's job is making humans.
And there's only 15 years between the age when it's a felony to make a human with them, and the age when the stuff they need to make humans starts to not work so well.
If they are filling the role of men during that time period, they cannot do their own full-time, maximum effort job, and you get no new humans.
This is precisely why Mother Nature designed women to only mate with men who are wealthier and more powerful than they are. Because a woman, who is working full time at making humans, needs to be supported.
A baby human is an investment in the future. You can't make investments in the future without someone else supporting you in the present.
If men cannot do this, women won't have babies with those men.
This is why every single high-tech civilization has the fertility crisis.
Because every time a civilization gets high-tech, the elites, who buy labor, have a bright idea. Let's start educating the women, they say. That way, we can hire them and double the supply of labor. Which is totally good for society, and the fact that we, personally, will benefit most from this is a total coincidence, and not in any way the whole reason that Wall Street loves feminism.
Everyone knows that there's a near-perfect correlation between female education and the fertility crisis.
But very few people have truly understood why. It's not the education. It's what the women are being educated for.
If you just wanted to teach them matters animal, vegetable, and mineral, along with many cheerful facts about the square of the hypotenuse, there would be no problem at all.
But women are not being educated so they can be interesting conversationalists, or well-rounded human beings. They are being educated so they can sit in a cubicle eight hours a day between the ages of 20 and 35, and answer emails or design marketing campaigns.
That leaves them neither the time nor the resources nor the inclination to make humans, because men aren't any more powerful than they are. Which gives them the ick.
And, of course, they're miserable, because they are genetically programmed to be happy when they do their real job, which is making and refining little humans. Not emails or spreadsheets or marketing campaigns.
But no one is ready for this conversation, because it would involve admitting that every change in Western values after WW2 was a huge mistake.
@elonmusk isn't going to stop hiring women. Hell, it's not even legal to stop hiring women. You can get sued into oblivion for that.
But woman can't make little humans unless the other responsibilities of life are somebody else's problem.
And she doesn't want to make little humans with any man who cannot shield her from all those extra duties.
The bar for being able to do that used to be "reasonably successful tradesman". Now it's actual serious wealth.
We can't IVF our way out of this problem. And we can't just sit around posting "have more babies" on twitter. We have to address the real obstacles that prevent women from having kids.
And the biggest of those is that we have, in effect, demanded that they share every single adult male responsibility from career-building to voting to military service.
All of these responsibilities and burdens were sold to women as opportunities. But nothing is an opportunity if you can't opt out. Just try being 18 years old and finding a man who will 100 percent support and take care of you while you bear his children and do a little light housework.
It's possible, but you had better be exceptionally beautiful, with a sunny personality to match, and social access to the right set of men.
Because the average man can't offer you that deal anymore.
Not won't. Can't.
And there aren't enough rich men to go around.
I always see this take “if your juju worked white men wouldn’t have colonized you” and I will address it today.
First of all, this take stems from ignorance, from the assumption that we were in no way civilized at all before white people came.
In any society, everyone has their area of expertise, we have always had farmers, hunters, weavers, blacksmiths and so on…., it’s not everybody that has juju, the people who practice juju were just another group of people who were mostly healers or warriors and that was their own profession. It doesn’t imply that all our forefathers have juju. Some were just farmers and normal people.
So losing a war and getting colonized doesn’t mean juju wasn’t real. It meant that we lost to people who were better and more advanced at war than us.
The same way people hail US military might, it doesn’t imply that all Americans are soldiers.
Juju has never been a general practice, and Africa wasn’t ruled with juju, so losing to colonial masters didn’t imply that juju failed, the stronger army with more advanced weapons won, I hope you understand.
A hilarious phenomena that rears its ugly head in virtually every tradition, movement, and philosophy ever created.
Is the zeal of the newly converted.
Now while there’s nothing wrong with their enthusiasm per se, (It’s great that they’re excited and eager to integrate the new concepts and teachings into their life!)…
It’s that their zeal overpowers their wisdom.
This is most readily visible in religion.
You’ve probably seen it yourself:
Someone become a born again Christian or a revert Muslim and what happens?
Whenever we genuinely adopt a powerful new lens with which to view reality, that lens tends to dominate our perception for a while.
This new lens, not only changes how we see the future, but it also changes how we reinterpret the past.
They begin reassessing their decisions, their relationships, their values, and even the people around them.
Suddenly, everything looks so different.
And in that excitement, they instantly begin lecturing and criticising everyone around them, even those who have been immersed in that tradition for longer than they have been alive!
This phenomenon is extremely common.
Because for many people, toying with excess is how they discover where balance is.
Extend grace to these people because every worthwhile framework has a honeymoon phase.
Over time, rabid certainty matures into nuance and the performance crystallises into embodiment. And perhaps most important of all…
Conviction matures into humility.
And humility is often among the final fruits of genuine understanding.
This process is perhaps more universal than you once realised...
So extend a little grace.
To the people rolling their eyes… and to the person who’s just discovered a new lens through which to see the world.
Namaste.