For everyone who doesn't know, this man followed a 6 year old girl into the toilets in a restaurant in South Africa and r*ped her. The media is trying to protect his identity because he is white.
Girl to girl:
You’re going to cry the day you realize you cannot love someone into emotional maturity. You’ll explain, beg, communicate, forgive, and try to understand them for so long… only to realize you’ve been carrying the entire relationship by yourself.
It will hit you the day you casually stop communicating and realize they never even cared enough to ask why.
People really think they’ll be having sex every single time 😂
That first month? Yeah, you’re going at it every day, maybe even twice before breakfast. You’re basically allergic to clothes. But give it time and reality checks in. You go from 10+ times a week to 4-5, and that’s still a win.
Living together means sex is on tap 24/7, so eventually your brain goes, “Oh cool, it’s here if I want it” and chills out. When you don’t live together, every time you link up it’s straight to the bedroom before you even say “how was your day?” Scarcity does things to you.
But here’s the twist: living together unlocks other types of intimacy you couldn’t really tap into before. Cuddling while doing nothing, showering together without it turning into an Olympic event, falling asleep mid-convo. Your sex life isn’t dying — it’s just not the only player on the team anymore.
Less frequency doesn’t mean boring. It means you’ve got more ways to be close than just the obvious one.
1. Don’t ever make plans for money that has not entered your account. Until you receive a credit alert, it is not real.
2. When you have money, buy things in bulk. Cook in bulk and grocery shop in bulk. Buy everything you need in doubles. It will cost more now, but it will save you money later.
3. Make it a habit to buy at least one piece of clothing every month, even if it is just a shirt, cap, or pair of pants.
4. Learn to tell people no without feeling guilty or having to explain yourself, especially those you don’t go to when you are in need.
5. Womanizing is the easiest route to going back to zero. It has little to no ROI. Do not invest in it.
6. Whenever you want to make an impulse purchase, wait another 24 hours. If you still need it after that time frame, go ahead with it.
7. Always fill your gas, and keep cooked soup and stew in your fridge. This will save you on rainy days.
8. Other people’s emergencies are not yours. You might be dipping into your savings for someone who has locked theirs away for other purposes.
9. Decline invites that will hurt your budget. Sometimes, it is better to send a small token than to go out of your way to attend an event.
10. Don’t ever use shame to chest billing. If you attend to every touching story, soon enough it will be your own story that is touching. Be frugal; it is hard to find help out there.
People lack accountability, then say, 'You could've talked to me. No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to argue not to understand.
Godly. Not a single unkept promise.Unequivocally, a man of his word. Honored my family. Introduced me to a love that drowns all my fears. Constantly reminds me that nights are for sleeping.
Self Accomplished, but being your wife is truly living within my wildest dream🤍