Put yourself out there. Your break might come from someone viewing the posts you make today sometime in the future, or maybe they viewed it today but it became relevant to them later. “The internet never forgets” is not always a bad thing.
Major cheat code in life: Be the one who reaches out. Text first. Call first. Plan first. Initialize first. Most people wait to be chosen. Be the chooser. Connection requires initiative. Friendship requires effort. Love requires action. Stop waiting to be picked. Start picking. Initiative is attractive.
Your spouse and your work decide both halves of your day. One anchors how you rise, the other holds down how you rest.
Nutrition keeps the engine running and location either expands what is possible or quietly shrinks it.
Everything else is pretty less consequential
@Igudiah Wisdom is what’s needed because both opinions are correct. For me it’s specialize in one thing and know a lot about other things. Upskilling is T shaped.
Claude being down means I have to choose between using my brain for the rest of the day or pivot to ChatGPT x Gemini. I’m glad I’ll make the right choice