Now my auntie is a god fearing woman but if she wasn’t there would’ve been plenty of curse words all throughout that statement lol I love her and I needed to hear that tbh idk why I’m even entertaining going somewhere I’m not even welcomed anyway.
I told one of my aunties about how I wasn’t planning to go to a family event because of how they treated me when they found out I was married to a woman and she was like “good! I don’t think you should either. That’s your business what they judging you for!?”
@Lovelater__ I love this encouragement! Since it’s something that I often think about I know homeownership is in the cards for me at some point and I’m certainly planning to prepare as much as possible when the time comes. Good luck on your journey 🥰
An update y’all didn’t want: I am now on the HOA board. I didn’t wanna deal with these retirees but the way my HOA has made me REGRET homeownership & had me ready to catch a case over every made up complaint they got. Here I am…& they’re mad. Yup, I’m about to veto everything.
I’m complaining now but I’m going to make the best of fall. Leaving summer behind is so hard for me fr but I’m not wasting my time or depleting my mental health by not trying to make it enjoyable.