Male humor is implying that penetrative sex is degrading and whoever is at the receiving end is being “defeated”. This is how rape culture is casually enforced through sports and then we wonder why male athletes get so much support from fans when they end up abusing women
“wait are you friends with a celebrity?” yes, I’m friends with my favorite fanfic writers! we’re actually moots and we talk in dm about our fics and torturing our blorbo together