Pawan Gotefode

Not Failure But Low Aim Is Crime 💯

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Culture is not product of our mass media but the mass media in our society has heralded the arrival of mass culture and cultural invasions

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Distinctiveness is a fundamental part of identity .

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Goalsfeel like authentic dreams whileshoulds feellike oppressive obligations. Shouldssetupa falsedichotomy betweeneithermeeting an ideal or beinga failure, betweenperfection or settling. The tyrannyofthe should even pitsusagainst ourown best interests.

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Goals direct us fromthe inside,butshoulds are paralyzing judgmentsfrom the outside.

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If we onlywanted tobehappy,it would beeasy; but we want tobehappier than other people,whichis almost alwaysdifficult, since we think them happierthan theyare.
—CharlesdeMontesquieu,writer/philosopher

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The best is enemy of good

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Unthought knowns
Themoreterrifyinguncertaintyiswanting somethingbut notknowinghow togetit. Whenwemakechoices,weopenourselvesupto hardworkandfailureandheartbreak,sosometimesitfeelseasiernot toknow, nottochoose,andnot todo.

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Whatmightyoubeabletodowellenoughtosupportthelifeyouwant?And whatmightyouenjoyenoughthatyouwon’tmindworkingatitinsomeformor anotherforyearstocome?

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The jam test, The lottery que : Thequestiontwentysomethingsneedtoask themselvesiswhattheywoulddo with theirlivesiftheydidn’twin the lottery.

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It led less to couragethan it didtoconfusion.

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twenty something’s who make choices are happier than those who tread water, he kept himself confused

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Uncertainty will be always part of taking charge

Being confused about choices isnothing morethan hoping that maybe there is a wayto get through lifewithout taking charge

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It is what we bring tothe adultmarketplace. It isthe currency we useto metaphorically purchase jobs andrelationships and other things we want.

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Identity Capital: collection of personal assets (skills, knowledge, wisdom u acquire)

Identity capital is how we buildourselves—bit by bit

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Twentysomethings were raised onabstract commands—“Follow yourdreams!” “Reachforthestars!”—butthey oftendon’t know much about how to get these things done

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It is what we bring tothe https://t.co/i4G3l3WqUN is the currency we use to metaphorically purchase jobs andrelationships and other things we want.

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Adults r not emerge, they r made

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May be I don’t have to make a splash. Maybe I will be ok with just keeping afloat.

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Uncertainty makes people anxious and distraction is twenty first century opiate for masses