I divorced my husband after 12 years of marriage.
He's remarried now, and suddenly he's insisting that I drop his last name.
Easy for him to say.
I've spent more than a decade building a life with that name.
It's on my degrees.
It's on my professional credentials.
It's on work records, bank documents, and enough paperwork to fill a small filing cabinet.
Now he's acting like I can just wake up tomorrow, snap my fingers, and change everything.
Sir, changing a last name after 12 years is not the same as updating a social media profile.
It's forms.
It's fees.
It's appointments.
It's explaining to every institution I've dealt with why my records suddenly don't match.
What makes this even more frustrating is that I wasn't the one who brought it up.
He's the one who remarried.
He's the one who moved on.
Yet somehow I'm the person being assigned a mountain of administrative work.
At this point, I don't even know where to.........
Yall never fail to amaze me cause she’s either the ignorant delusion kind or clout cashing one either way, hope the kids in yalls life don’t eventually see what yall be doing…
@Gonegirl2002@ytspost https://t.co/dZHBekcYlZ
And there’s plenty more.
People just need to be more aware of predators and stop being naive and irresponsible, and ignoring red flags, wanting to put their happiness first instead of the safety of their kids.
So false, look at the number of kids who are hurt by the other woman or neglected.
There was just a case not to long ago they arrested the father and his girlfriend for abuse…
@ytspost This is one of the reasons children should live with their dads when parents seperate. Dad may date some real itches in his life but mom is more likely to bring in someone who rapes, physically abuses, and/or murders her child.
I’m not trying to be funny but that’s why he probably had such a horrible ironic death.
The same way he spoke on black people it was a WHITE MAN who fatally shot him and IN DEATH, his wife is just embarrassing… 😭😩😂
if a doctor who graduated medical school says you need something, it should be illegal for someone sitting behind an insurance desk with absolutely zero medical training to deny you coverage...
@KwudiRene@HunadiFlorah Having sex/ cheating with another woman in the hotel room. That lady found out went to the funeral, didn’t shed a tear and the family said she didn’t stay for the repass etc and she got the hell outta there and never looked back…
@KwudiRene@HunadiFlorah &When he’s gone who cares, nothing to be said but leaving in peace and still alive unlike him, dead and gone. All that’s gonna do is push her to move on quickly so win win for her…Who grieves over someone who screwed them over. It was this story and woman’s husband died while…
Lmfao I told yall start giving these kids to these men that think like this. Sign those rights overrrrr. Cause who said the kid has to stay with the mom. You be a single father, studies show it’s better than a single mother so good luck.
Perfect thread to show why it’s more black women now than ever realizing & having proof some of these men are worthless, insensitive, insecure, unintelligent, uninformed, hated and traumatized by women who were supposed to love them and didn’t because they’re shit. Go heal 👍🏾
Girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still navigate through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man's childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
Flint Michigan didn’t have clean drinking water until last year after the crisis that happened in 2014. It took over a decade for the government to acknowledge those people suffering. They know what data centers will do to the environment. They don’t care.