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Divorce rates are high because many men are treated as passive income, not as human beings.
As long as the money is coming, everything looks fine.
The moment he loses his job, falls sick, or goes through a hard season, the respect disappears and the marriage starts shaking.
Too many men are valued only for what they provide.Their feelings, their exhaustion, and their silent struggles are ignored.
A man is not an ATM.
When a marriage reduces him to just a provider, it becomes very easy for that marriage to collapse.
Replying fast doesn’t make you desperate. It means you saw the message and wanted to reply. Stop turning basic communication into a power game. If you like someone, talk to them. Making people wait just to look “busy” isn’t attractive. It’s insecurity dressed up as confidence.
Men carry burdens they often cannot even put into words. Now imagine carrying the weight of the world every day, only to come home to no peace, no softness, and no emotional safety. Even the strongest man will eventually break.
You're free to argue this, but let me say it.
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.
2. You're richer than your wife.
3. You're older than your wife.
4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.
5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.
6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.
7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.
8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.
9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.
10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.
11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.
12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.
13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.
14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.
15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
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You don't need $25,000 for a wedding anywhere.
Even in England I went to so many weddings where we just went back to the person house had sandwiches and a cup of tea, that was it. They spent $50 max. The expense is borne out of our culture.
I dont understand why a man is asked to go get married just because he has made money.
"You have a good job. You have a good apartment. You have money. What are you waiting for? Get yourself a woman."
Get a woman to do what? Getting married is not the problem, I have a problem with the monetary qualification. Why do I need money to get married and she comes as she is?
Marriage is a merger not an acquisition. Thus, your financial status is irrelevant. Whatever stage you are in life and you choose to commit, the parties come together to do life together, which means that the bills become one. Both income are family income and the couple put family first by investing both income to the success of the home. Marriage is not the acquiring of somebody to increase your burden and expenses.
Positive cash flow is rarely the result of one big financial decision. More often, it comes from small, consistent habits repeated over time.
Managing your finances effectively starts with understanding your spending, and learning from past financial experiences.
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Here you go, fellas:
This is why so many women who call themselves “Christian wives” are really feminists in disguise
confidently ignorant of what God actually commands.
She claims “submission” doesn’t mean obedience, but Ephesians 5:22-24 says it explicitly:
"Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church… Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything."
The Greek word used for submit here is “hypotassō”, which literally means to arrange under, to obey, to place oneself under authority.
Let’s not stop there:
1 Peter 3:1-6 calls wives to submit so that even an unbelieving husband may be won without words, showing that submission is not optional or conditional.
Colossians 3:18: “Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.”
Not “mutual cooperation,” not “love and respect each other equally” this is obedience.
Meanwhile, a godly man often stays quiet, keeps peace, and sacrifices his pride, something most wives conveniently ignores.
Feminism has infiltrated the church to reframe obedience as “mutual understanding,” but scripture doesn’t lie.
Women like this block reality while claiming faith.
They’ve rewritten God’s word to suit modern feelings.
Submission isn’t optional.
It’s God’s order for a functional marriage.
“Cohabitation leads to fornication and immorality”.
One would think you people are intentional about being moral.
You would talk about immorality but be wicked towards one another, be villains to your house maids and make them sleep in dog cages, hate on your mother-in-laws, maltreat your step-children, make your husbands train another man’s child for decades without him knowing and break up with your loyal long term partners cos another man showed you more attention in 2 weeks than your loyal man of 4 years showed you.
But cohabitation is where you draw the line, just to keep the man longing for sex and make sure he marries you and plays according to your rules in the game.
It is only a fool that would listen to you people and fools die.
When a woman says there is a dearth of good men, what it means is that she does not attract good men. It can also mean that good men intentionally avoid her. Another possibility is that good men meet her but are not interested in a relationship with her.
The common factor in all of these cases is the woman, not the men.
I'm seeing many arguments from guys against having female friends.
The thing is, you know she is the only one that stands to benefit from the friendship. She knows she is the only one that stands to benefit from the friendship. Both of you know this is not a friendship, and she sees you as a mumu, but you choose to live in your delusion because you're just happy to be in contact.
You have two options, discard her and make better friends or just open your mouth and say what you really want because what you have is not friendship. If you need help, she would never cross your mind. It doesn't even cross her mind to be kind to you. That is not how it works in actual friendship. When you have proper friendship with women, you'll know. Friendship is friendship - regardless of gender, the only expectation in friendship is to be friendly.
People who take advantage of your likeness for them to keep taking from you are not your friends. You don't even have proper conversation like friends because she is never fine and always needs help. The help she never needs from her female friends. As yourself why you are the one that she can tell these. Ask yourself if your male friend did this, would it make sense to you?
I won't tell you not to come through for your friends because to love is to give, and we have a duty to our friends to come through for them. The problem is, you are the only one that seem to have this duty. The money might not mean much but you don't want to be kind to who sees you as a fool. There is no normal person that just wants to keep taking from their friends or someone they love. To love is to give. It is unfortunate what many of you choose to endure in relationship with women and in friendship with them.
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As a corollary, many guys have zero expectations from "female friends" because they're all women as the same and would rather just have sex with women even if they have to pay because a sexless friendship benefits only the woman. But then, the fault lies with the men because you absolutely have a choice in whom you call a friend. Having said this, it is a shame that many Nigerian women are not good lovers to their men and not good friends to their male friends. You cannot keep going through life just looking to take. I would be absolutely ashamed if my friends do not consider me an option when they need help. I would hate my life if I'm not regularly kind to my friends and show up for them. How do you ladies do it?
You can have good friendship with women. You will know when you meet one. Otherwise, friends with benefits is still a form of friendship, and you can stop deceiving yourself and lamenting in secret about how much you have to spend on who doesn't give a shit about you.
Marriage is extremely simple
I learned this the hard way…
This is what I had to learn:
Stay in shape
Never question him
Initiate intimacy daily
Say “thank you” often Keep the house a home
Always treat him pleasant and kind Prioritized your man above all else Learn your place alongside a man Find contentment with boredom
Be unwavering in the face of struggle
Be open to criticism from your husband
And remember, the only opinion that matters is your husbands.
Any woman who can do this will find great joy in a lasting marriage.
Some people say if you have faith, you shouldn’t grieve. You shouldn’t feel pain or sadness. We’re human. Jesus wept when His friend Lazarus died. He felt sorrow and heartache. In the Garden of Gethsemane, He was so overwhelmed that He sweated drops of blood. He’s God, yet in His human body, He had these emotions. It’s not a lack of faith to feel things.
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