@seeredwrite I am not a huge fan of confrontation either. But I would much rather have someone come to me and say "when you said or did this, it sucked," then have them talk behind my back. I'd even take passive aggression at that point.
@seeredwrite Me either. I've also never understood catty behavior. Like so-and-so did this so now instead of confronting them I'm going to talk shit and try to rally other people on my side, still not addressing the original conflict.