@IndoartJ24077@Meta80ki secara agama ok, tapi bisakah keep it to yourself? gaada empati kah dalam bersosmed? pantes aja awareness kesehatan mental rendah sekali di indo
Your brain doesn't age because of time. It ages because of repetition. The more predictable your days become, the faster your neurons quiet down. Your brain builds neural pathways based on experience. New experiences create new connections. Repetition strengthens old ones. But when you repeat the same patterns for years, your brain stops building. That's why time feels faster as you age. Your brain stops encoding new memories. It just references old ones. A year at 40 feels shorter than a year at 10, because at 10, everything was new. At 40, everything is familiar. But neuroplasticity doesn't stop. You can still grow new neurons. You can still learn. You can still change. You just have to break the loop. Your brain will wake up. And time will slow down again.
As a man, you really have only two ways to keep a relationship or marriage with women.
If you treat them like full adults and expect accountability, reciprocity, and emotional maturity, the relationship will likely collapse.
But If you treat them like a 14-year-old teenager…managing emotions, walking on eggshells, avoiding direct accountability, and leading everything yourself…the relationship may last, but you must accept that reciprocity from her will be nonexistent cause she will get addicted to it.
Understand this: women dislike being treated as adults. That’s why you often hear, “It’s not right to ask a lady her age.” Why is that? Because acknowledging age implies adulthood, responsibility, and maturity.
That’s also why they dislike being addressed with terms that signal adulthood…..ma,” “auntie,” or “grandma,” cause they don’t want any responsibility, and accountability, which they resist. Basically men are fucked completely.