I'm a big fan of the "GPS Theory" when you miss a turn, your GPS doesn't judge you, it recalculates. No matter how many detours you take, it finds another way forward. Life works like that too. You'll make mistakes, but your destination doesn't vanish. The route just changes.
Do fun shit, make a shit tons of money, talk to strangers, lift heavy weights, scare yourself, be uncomfortable, travel everywhere, enjoy every moment, Just live.
My husband and I have a deal that whenever we fight or disagree about something, the first one who notices it’s getting heated needs to speak up and say
“hey just a reminder that we’re best friends”
and for the last ten years this has worked remarkably well. It really snaps us out of whatever escalating path we might’ve been on and contextualizes how small the discussion is relative to the big picture.
Anyway happy saturday ☀️
saw a quote that said, “anger is the part of you that loves you the most. it shows up when you're being mistreated, ignored or disrespected. it's a signal - calling you to step away from what's harming you.
whether it's a room, a job, a relationship or an old version of yourself, anger let's you know when it's time to walk away. if you learn to listen to it, to trust it and make it your ally, it won’t need to shout so loudly."