it’s always weird to me when LGBTQ+ people embrace puritanical attitudes…. one of the best parts of being gay is being free to question and reject heteronormative expectations instead of recreating them.
the gay man u call dramatic has survived entire civilizations of cruelty. the straight man u call strong gets nervous washing his own ass after taking a shit
DREADING the inevitable Letterboxd review of The Odyssey that’s some straight guy going, “I’d go through all that to get home if my wife looked like Anne Hathaway too.”