@ILuvBethanni I would take you as wanting to be in the city! Midtown, Virginia Highlands, Iman Park , Atlantic Station. Now if you wanted to live away from the city I would suggest Vinnings, Smyrna or Marietta. I live far out in the county I won’t suggest my area lol
a girl on tik tok just said "i would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and i think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
When I isolate, it’s not because I have an issue with anyone. It just means I’m immersed in my integration process, which can take days or even weeks. Most people don’t truly understand the intensity of extreme ascension and the space it requires.
I’ve lost a few close friendships over the past couple of years, and we don’t talk enough about how deeply that can cut. My relationships with women have always been…interesting, to say the least. It feels like as soon as I let people get close, some of them start acting weird, jealous, or indifferent toward me.
For a while, I used to blame myself, wondering if I was doing something wrong. But I’ve come to realize that how others react to me is not my responsibility. The more I rise in consciousness and step into my light, the more it seems to upset those who aren’t ready to embrace theirs.
Ladies, for your own sanity, Avoid emotionally unavailable men. Men who make you question your self worth, men who ignore you when they are mad, men who intentionally do things to upset you, men who can't apologize sincerely, men who can't communicate without getting angry!!
Heavy on "I ain't even mad at you". You did what you did. That is who you're. Because at a certain age things aren't mistakes or misunderstandings anymore, that's your character. Be that, but I won't ever deal with you again.
One thing about me is I’m not fake. If something isn’t sitting right with me I voice it. I’m assertive and I’m direct… I see there are people who severely lack emotional maturity, intelligence and awareness. They rather get mad and talk shit behind closed doors. Childish AF
It's a sign of high emotional intelligence when you're ok with some people disliking you because you're not a people-pleaser, you stick to your boundaries, and you put them in their place the first time they try you, which is better than being a doormat and hoping they like you.
you really don't realize how much a person sets you back until you no longer deal with them anymore. the weight lifted off ur shoulders is undeniable. suddenly, ur left wondering how u tolerated the stress for so long. sometimes ppl not being in ur life is blessing in disguise.