Not every shibari tie is perfect some days ties fail and some are perfect. I've learned that tK ties when suspended forward does not work for me and that sometimes backwards TK ties work better for me
In this lifestyle, we both carry our humanity. There will be moments that feel heavy, imperfect, real. Somehow, those are the sacred ones…
where we soften into the shadow and touch the deeper places within the soul.
Imperfect beauty.
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The BDSM community is rotting from the inside because too many people think "power exchange" is a license to be a toxic prick. If you’re in the BDSM scene and you don’t lead with respect, you’re not Dominant, you’re just a toxic predator. Power exchange isn’t a license to be a prick; it’s a debt you owe to the person across from you. If you can’t handle that, get out of the lifestyle.
To the Dominants: A submissive’s "Yes" is a gift, not a conquest. If you skip aftercare or ignore a hard limit because your ego is too big to care, you’ve failed the most basic test of leadership. Stewardship is the job. Ego is the enemy.
To the Submissives: Respect isn't just about kneeling; it’s about the integrity of your word. Lying about boundaries or weaponizing your vulnerability makes you a liability, not a partner. Respect the weight of the authority you’ve granted.
The Bottom Line: Consent without respect is just a legal loophole for abuse. If you can't hold the "No" in absolute reverence, you don't belong in the scene. Period.
People may not like what I stand for, because the truth is, being Dominant or submissive isn’t easy, it takes work and a lot of effort. I speak against entitlement, I speak against pseudo dominance and submission. I am a voice for dignity, respect and honor for all people. I will NOT allow my kingdom to be devalued by degenerates masquerading as “community leaders” while disregarding the fabric that keeps our community safe; such as respect for all people, dignity and honor for all people, and honoring the foundational principles of BDSM, which encourage deep communication, emotional intelligence, safety, and genuine care concern.
If you share my sentiment, I ask you to join me on my mission to dispel the misinformation we see spewed all over social media, and get back to promoting the higher standards of true BDSM principles.
-Sir Garnet
We all suffer impermanence and life is short we all have to eventually let go of the things in our life so enjoy the life while you're given and enjoy the things you do we can't spend our time hating on that serve no purpose
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