In Ruins

If you’re not on nsfw Twitter, you’re lost. Not a man (They/them)

[♱ 𝓢𝖊𝖎𝒌𝖔𝖙𝖎𝖈 𝓢𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖆 ♱ @Sin4Sativa]

F stands for Fxcked For Sativa . ❤︎

I know you wanna be fxcked for Me too 🤭

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

@spoiladorax Maybe he should wait until his handwriting gets better lmao that w killed me

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

Okay so, is aftercare not a thing in the Findom space? Seems not to be, but also I keep thinking that it SHOULD be. Then again, idk how that would work online exactly.

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

@adversarykhaos Coming from a gender-who the fuck knows person, give yourself permission to explore! You'll find the things that feel good and it'll be amazing. I don't know you, but you have my support! Enjoy exploration and let yourself find the you that you feel comfortable in!

[𝓢𝓾𝓷𝓷𝓲 𖤓 @sunnicult]

Man, is death by suffocation from
thick thighs too much to ask for?

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

@TheGingReaper My understanding has been it's something like "I'm a god, I literally seduced death instead of dying"

Or, ya know, brain just picked a really weird subject for a horny dream 🤷‍♀️

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

Had a dream about getting fucked by Freddy Krueger what the fuck does that mean

[𝙍𝙀𝘼𝙋𝙀𝙍 @goontoreaper]

dear switches,

I understand the anxiety. Not knowing how to express your subby feelings for a domme. Or how you’ll be seen after coming out as a switch. Or if your career will change because of it. I get all of that and it is a valid fear and one that should be respected.

Nobody should ever, ever, ever, ever violate or disrespect your trust by exposing you or naming you on the TL or to anyone without your explicit permission. No domme should ever pressure or force you into outing yourself just so they can have clout for “getting a domme to sub for them.”

It is 100% your choice if you want to be visible about your dynamic and transparent about being a switch.

[𝐕𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐱 @VictrixVie]

TW - mentions of p3d0philia & gr00ming

I’m gonna spell this all out very clearly.

You can be a young adult s3x worker, for many people it’s necessary, it’s survival SW. With that being said, you’re in an adult industry, so there is an expectation for you to behave like one, learn quickly, take responsibility, and to protect the safety of yourself and others.

There has been an argument made that plastering ‘teen’ all over your SW account is totally acceptable and that it is simply ‘fact’. There’s even been some wildly immature statements from girls saying more experienced and mature doms are simply ‘jealous they aren’t young anymore’. I’m not saying you cannot be honest about your age, but if you are using the key word ‘teen’ repeatedly for certain forms of engagement, then you need to stop, no debate. Definitively the word ‘teen’ includes children, teenagers are often associated with min0rs because most teenagers are! Using the word ‘teen’ in an adult industry, automatically s3xualises the word, which obviously - p3d0s have been trying to encourage through the 🌽 industry for years. Online gr00ming is thriving these days and it’s a huge problem for young impressionable people to think that s3xualising themselves online from a very young age is normal.

Does the term ‘barely legal’ sound familiar? It’s probably one of the most popular genres for disturbed m3n, it’s all about pushing that line, how young can they go with and get away with it - that’s the question they’re often wondering. What then happens is they do get away with it! Lucky them a teen SW has infact encouraged his disturbed fantasy! And now he knows he cannot only enjoy it, but continue to push that line. So he does. When does that line end? I’m sure many of you would like to presume it stops at 18. But that isn’t true for some. By encouraging their urges instead of shutting them down, you’ve opened up a gateway, shown them a world where their disturbances are possible and where potential underage victims can think it’s empowering because at least they’re making money. There are children pretending to be findoms for this very reason. It is not empowering to make money from p3d0s, it is simply encouraging their behaviour.

There are many degrading things m3n can do in this industry that you can take advantage of financially, but something that borders on s3xualisation of children isn’t one of them. Protect children. The adult industry is for adults. Stop using words that drag children into this.

If you think this is normal I suggest therapy to unlearn these dangerous ideas that allow an endless cycle of child abus3.

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

Creamers > squirters I will die on this hill

[Mother Winnie @m1lfymoo]

I do not care what ANYONE says AFTERCARE IS IMPORTANT. I don’t care if I’m looked at funny for actually caring about my subs, but fck yall are damaging MY brain with these posts.

Your job as a domme is to create a safe space to practice kink. If you cannot do that, GET OUT OF KINK!

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

Need more queer people in findom

[Diamonnd | @BlkDiamond2_]

To the Women who are just starting out …I cannot stress this enough :

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🚨🚨🚨🚨

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

@Sin4Sativa Literal succubus 🫠

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

@Sin4Sativa !!!

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

Could y’all imagine real verification and/ or reviews for doms and subs in findom xD

“Five stars because he sent me tribute and then paid for play without whining about it”

“Five stars because she actually exists”

Poetry

[♱ 𝓢𝖊𝖎𝒌𝖔𝖙𝖎𝖈 𝓢𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖆 ♱ @Sin4Sativa]

I want My first ball-busting session but, none of you bitches have proven yourself trustworthy enough yet smh.

It’s okay though- with all this built up passion, one of these days I’m going to DESTROY someone’s 🥎

[• 𝐆 𝐎 𝐃 𝐃 𝐄 𝐒 𝐒 𝐌 𝐈 𝐋 𝐋 𝐈 𝐄 • @MistressMilx]

✨ LATE NIGHT FLASH RT GAME ✨

£1/£1/£1 💸

Two comments per person ✍🏽

15 minutes ⏳

Let's rinse this late night gooner! 🫰🏽💸

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[♱ 𝓢𝔞𝔱𝔦𝔳𝔞 ♱ @SpoilSativa]

𝐆𝐄𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐊𝐍𝐎𝐖 𝐘����𝐔𝐑 𝐃𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐃:

💃🏻 favorite color: red & jungle green
🥀 fave flower: tiger lillies + white roses
☎️ fave song rn: seize the power - YONAKA
🍒 apple music or spotify: spotify
🍷 highest findom day: $2k

@universitologie @worshiplychee <3

[In Ruins @InRuins4]

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