“In time,this thing you thought was a big deal will become so small that it will fade into nothingness. Then one day you will wonder why it consumed your thoughts in the first place”
i fear i’m unjudgeable😭 i’m painfully self aware & trust i’ve already argued both sides, accepted the criticism, defended myself, reflected on it 47 times & i forgave myself before you even opened your mouth🤣😭
it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself
I think having a lover, not a boyfriend, not a husband, just a lover who pursues you and cares about you and you're obsessed with each other but live separately without societal pressure is so elegant and very intoxicating.